Hello
Is it unreasonable to ask that a hen party suits everyone's budgets?
I'm matron of honour and the bride's bff is maid of honour.
The maid-O-H has taken over the planning of the hen party and the costs are all adding up to over £200
I raised this and got snotty response telling me I could save up and that the bride deserves the best.
I love the bride and wish I could do more but skinting myself isn't ideal.
My hen party cost my bridemaids £30 and my husband bought us all a case of prosecco and was in my home town.
I'm not saying it has to be cheap but we are already spending £70 on accommodation, £70 travel + drinks, food and various activities.
I tried to give other suggestions but Maid-o-h is being defensive and said I'm awakward and not being flexible. Tried to be nice but she is rude. I said I appreciate what she's done so far but x y z would be cheaper.
Should I say to the bride I'm worried about the costs? I feel stuck between a rock and hard place - go and be skint or miss out. Right now I don't wanna go.
I haven't even been on my honeymoon so being told to save up takes the p!SS.
Already taking three days off work to attend the wedding, pay for travel and accommodation for that a month after the hen party.
Never met the Maid of Honour either but usually if it was someone I'd speak to her face to face and be telling them how she dealt with it isn't acceptable (some call me blunt but I've been nothing but polite and friendly, even got my husband to check my messages and it was all civil)
What would you do?
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