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Beginner September 2024 Cheshire

Hen party priorities

Barbara, 23 July, 2023 at 22:37 Posted on Planning 0 3
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Hello
I'm getting married early next year. I was hoping to have my hen abroad and bring my 2 groups of friends together. I've been on all of my friends hens.
Now my sister (MoH) is saying she doesn't want to plan it and is planning one for just me and her friends. She always prioritises her best mate over everyone else. I'm upset as I don't want 2 hens.I'm thinking it's just easier to have none than to have separate ones as I don't want challenging conversations and fall outs.To be honest, my sister is the one that is hard work.
Any advice hitchers?

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Latest activity by RomanticGreenStationery27135, 3 August, 2023 at 08:59
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    Expert November 2022 Lincolnshire
    Hayley ·
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    If you want one big hen but your sister doesn't want to plan that, then you just need to pick someone else to plan it. Tell your sister that her hen planning services are not required if she can't follow your wishes. If you give a friend the contact details of everyone you want to come, then they can take over.
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    Rockstar August 2024 West Midlands
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    Sorry you’re going through this. It’s an awful feeling.


    Is there another bridesmaid you could delegate the job to?
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    Genius July 2020 Monmouthshire
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    If your sister doesn't want to plan the kind of hen do that you want, that is fine. But she doesn't get to plan you a totally different hen do instead. Thank her for her offer of planning a second hen, but tell her that it won't be necessary as you are sticking to your original plan and x will plan it instead.

    If you can't find someone else to plan it, then you may end up having to organise it yourself, but if you want one hen with all your friends together, that is what you should have.

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