Hen Weekend Hell...sorry its a downer :(

Your hair looks amazing!

What happened?! Sounds like it was awful...My best friend is looking like she might do that to mine atm. Hope youre okay.x x

Sorry to hear about your Hen Night ☹️ At least, if it makes you better, you can focus on a fabulous wedding without the people mentioned or worrying about them possibly ruining your day.

Your hair looks fantastic, and I love your headband, I've never seen anything like that with the dangly heart ? x

Oh no! How awful - I'm really sorry to hear that Laura

I don't really know what to say other than forget about the girl who has done this and concentrate on the good people and having a wonderful wedding. Don't let it bring you down! I know it's easier said than done, but soon you will be marrying the love of your life and it's going to be a fabulous day with all the people who care about you there and it's silly moo's loss that she won't be there, not yours!

On the happier note - your hair is beautiful - so shiny and thick! I love the style you have chosen!

OT - wow at your dimples! I wish I had some

Ahhh hun that is horrible for you. What on earth did they do? From what you have written it wounds as though you are pretty determined that they arent going to be part of your day which is a shame as they obviously meant something to you when you started planning your day. However I agree that if they have hurt you that they have no place at your day.

You hair looks lovely though and your head piece fits so well into it. XX

Sorry you have had a crappy w/e but you're hair looks lovely. Move on from it, weddings can bring out the worst in people.

Your hair looks gorgeous! x

Sorry to hear about your "friend", if you need to get it out you are in the right place xxx

Thank you ladies, I am in complete shock to be honest. The girl got drunk and created this huge row on the Friday night and divided the whole party, forcing people to choose. She had no regard whatsoever to the reason we were there, I dont think she liked not being the centre of attention and after a truely miserable day yesterday I tried to speak to her to clear the air before our night out. All she had to say was 'I am fine, I have had a great day so I dont know what you're here for' looking at me like I was something she stepped on.

There is so much too it but it couldnt have been anymore spiteful and hateful. I get back tonight to add pics to Facebook and see she has taken me off her friends.

I think some of it is that she knows what a hole she has dug and its easier to be a b*tch than to admit how awful your behaviour has been...

This was meant to be my bridesmaid

Your hair looks lovely and love the hairband.

So sorry about your friend and hen night. what on earth happened, sounds heavy? I hope you have enough support from your other BMs to put it behind you and have a wonderful wedding

x

God, she sounds like a nightmare! I better she does regret her behaviour now but like you say it's easier not to apologise. You're better off without her. I hope your other friends haven't taken any notice of her bitching

Enjoy the rest of your planning - she obviously wasnt a true friend and is just jealous of you

xx

So sorry to hear about your dreadful weekend Laura Like your hair though

Aww date twin that sound like total poo - I'm so so sorry that you had such a downer on your hen do. Try not let it get you down too much and move on to finalising the wedding planning. On the plus side your hair looks fabulous.

Have a ? and a ?

xx

My thoughts on the subject go something like this

1. Sod her

2. good riddance to bad rubbish

3. Sod her

4. Bet your glad you found out what she is like now

5. Sod her

6. Think of the savings you are making

7. Sod her

8. Who needs enemies when you have friends like that

9. Sod her

10. Can't think of anything else... so .... (yep you guessed it) sod her!!

I second this! Sorry she sh@t all over your night... On the plus side, your hair looks stunning!

Thank you ladies, I was dying to come home and 'talk' it all out with you guys x

Aaaah Laura I did see something on FB, but thought it might have just been a blip. Wot a total cow, have you managed to speak to her at all? Chin up sweetcheeks your hair looks fab by the way.

When I spoke to her she just said 'what do you want?' you cant reason with someone like that x

Aw Laura I'm so sorry you had a rubbish time. Boo to your stupid bm/friend and I really hope she admits she was in the wrong soon although she doesn't deserve your friendship anymore.

Your hair trial is lovely and the tiara works very well.

Mrs T2B it is a snowflake crystal thats in her tiara ?

Laura have a big massive squishy hug ?? xx

Sorry your weekend was spoilt, strange how weddings can bring out the worst in people. Her loss, think you should just forget her and concentrate on your special day. Don't waste any more energy being upset or worrying, it's not worth it, you have such a happy time ahead to look forward to instead.

on the plus side, your hair and tiara are lovely!

Im so sorry that you have had a terrible time.

all you can do is try and look forward to your special day and try not to think about the people who arent worth it

xx

I just don't understand some people ... what a nasty coo.

But your hair is fab and that tiara is very unusual!

Oh Laura, I' m so sorry to hear that. Maybe another day you can get together with a couple of friends (who are not complete dicks!) and have a nice girly night in. Then you can have a right *** and get back to realising who is really there for you.

Your hair is gorgeous btw!

Im so sorry to hear about your weekend Laura. I think you need to forget about the ones that spoilt it for you and remember the ones that were there for you. I hope your ok.

Your hair looks gorgeous btw. x

Hair looks fab BTW,. Well least you found out her true colours now. Some people can be so spiteful its unreal. Anyhow you have a lovely wedding to prepare for, don't let this put a downer on the rest of your wedding preps- she's made it clear shes not worth the time nor effort! So chin up, smile and let her see what a fool she's been!

If thats her attitude....**** her. Your wedding day will be perfect, with or without her. It's your day, don't let one person put a downer on it. She will only come to regret her behaviour.

Your hair looks lovely *chin up* xxx

Sorry to hear about your friend. Must be awful for you. ?

Your hair looks amazing. Really suits you. x

Alcohol often brings out the worst in people.

Hen nights/stag nights often contain far more than necessary amounts of alcohol consumption.

That's partly why I don't plan on having one.

She sounds like a witch! Know it must be v upsetting but try and forget about her. As others have said it's funny how weddings can bring out the worst in some people and at least now she won't have a chance to throw a strop at your wedding.

Hair looks fab by the way - v glossy! x

Bit of a sweeping statement, no? I think its more to do with the person ultimately than the booze for them to do something as horrid as this and then not be on bended knees apologising for it at least afterwards. Bit of a shame that you feel that folk you should feel good about knowing actually turn into a complete bunch of cwunts just because they've had a drink, so you won't have a stag? Doesn't say much for how you feel about your mates.

Alcohol can bring out the worst in people, yes, but not normally to this extent if they are ultimately supposed to be one of your best mates.

There is no law that says I have to have a stag night, I find the whole concept rather distasteful, I don't drink alcohol anyway and feel very uncomfortable in the company of drunk people (even if not in my particular group but other occupants of the venue) so I don't see the point in bothering with one. I'm sure that people could do far better things with their money anyway.

My point of view has nothing to do with my particular circle of friends, or how I might feel about them - it's just a fact that alcohol can ruin a lot of things when people get out of control having had too much (as this particular thread, and various others) show, and I don't need that risk or hassle.

Please be careful how you word things. That sort of sentiment could get on a lot of people's nerves.

Sorry if you don't like it but it's my opinion and I'm entitled to it.

AJ not all Stag & Hen partys contain alchohol, that is a really sweeping statement to be honest.