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How much money to give as wedding present?

Bink, 10 March, 2011 at 21:08 Posted on Planning 0 9

Hi all

I'm more of a regular on baby talk but wondered if you girlies could help answer a question.

We're invited to the evening reception of a friend next week and they've asked for money towards their honeymoon/house. Trouble is, it's been over 7 years since I got married so I've lost track of the going rate. How much do you reckon is reasonable? I've known her for a couple of years (met through a baby club) and I used to see her every week but don't see her much anymore due to our work days clashing but we still keep in regular contact.

Thanks in advance

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Latest activity by Pheonix, 11 March, 2011 at 13:12
  • Browny
    Beginner June 2011
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    For an evening reception I would give £20-30. If its a swanky do then maybe a bit more.

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  • Saisi
    Beginner June 2011
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    I would give £50 from us as a couple, for an evening reception.

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  • Little Madam
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    For the evening do we went to, we gave $40 towards their honeymoon which I think was £30 ish.

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  • lovelygirl
    Beginner August 2011
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    I give about £30ish but it is dependant on the friend.....

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  • Knees
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    I agree on about £25-30 for an evening party.

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  • Pheonix
    Beginner August 2011
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    I'd give £30 for evening and £50 for day, but it also depends who the person is, for a very close firend I gave £100 for the day...

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  • Saisi
    Beginner June 2011
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    Can I ask everyone, when you say how much you would give, is that you on your own (i.e. you'd give £30 and your OH would give £30) or is it from you as a couple?

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  • SaSaSi
    Beginner July 2012
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    For an evening do £30.00 as a couple - if they are a close friend having a small wedding but a big party i'd give £50.00 as a couple.

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  • Knees
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    As a couple.

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  • Pheonix
    Beginner August 2011
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    As a couple

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