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alabastamasta
Beginner May 2014

How to involve teenagers in the wedding?

alabastamasta, 17 January, 2014 at 15:03 Posted on Planning 0 5
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I'm looking for some inspiration on how to involve my cousin's 2 girls (15 and 18) in our wedding; they can't really be bridesmaids as I already have 4 adult BMs and 3 flower girls!

So far the ideas I have come up with are:

-reading: I think possibly one of them could do this, but I'm not sure either of them are really confident enough
-handing out confetti at the church

And I'm stuck for more! We have ushers, so not sure they could really do any of the ushering duties :/

Does anyone have any bright ideas? Pretty please? Smiley tongue

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Latest activity by alabastamasta, 17 January, 2014 at 17:07
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    Beginner August 2014
    MOMB ·
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    Could they be in charge of making sure everyone signs the guest book? Taking it round in the evening etc.

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  • alabastamasta
    Beginner May 2014
    alabastamasta ·
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    Ooh yeah, maybe! Smiley smile

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  • Alisha.B
    Expert April 2022
    Alisha.B ·
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    To be honest if I wasn't a BM then I would want to be a guest... I dont understand how giving someone a job and responsibility so they worry all day/chase people round and cant enjoy themselves is an honor

    as for a speech/reading it depends on the person really... I would hate it as I have stage fright (as do many others I know) so make sure they are comfortable doing public speaking first

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  • PinkButterfly
    Beginner June 2014
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    Do they care whether they are involved or not?? I attended many weddings as a teenager and was more than happy to be a guest!!

    in one I was given a job to assist people at the church and I hated it so much!!!

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  • alabastamasta
    Beginner May 2014
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    It's more to offer them an opportunity to be involved if they want to; I wouldn't ask them to do anything they didn't want to do and if I can think of something they would enjoy, then all well and good! Smiley smile

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