Hey Everyone!
So I'm newly engaged but I started planning our wedding in my head about a year into our relationship haha! As you do! 🙄
We both have quite large families with siblings on both sides with 8 nieces and nephews on OH's side and 7 on mine. I'm super hands on and love playing with the kids when we see them however we have decided that we don't want to have 15 young children at our wedding. Firstly because we don't have any kids ourselves, secondly I don't want to be harassed to play and thirdly because I feel I want my brothers and sisters to enjoy the wedding and party with us fully without having to worry about babysitting. I know my family will be fine with this as they're super easy going and they know me as an aunty but I am concerned about OH's family as obviously I don't know them quite as well as my own and I don't want to upset them.
I'm wondering how you think I should go about telling them this? Also, should I be worried about one of them who is a single parent who looks to OH's parents for babysitting... That she might not have anyone else to look after her child if everyone who usually would is at the wedding?
Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated!Thanks x
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