My in laws today sent various emails pulling and picking the wedding pieces with issues ranging from people taking photos from behind the gazebo, to them not being given a big enough room, to the dj forgetting to play their request. In my wedding report I told how they didn't speak to us - well things have gone from bad to worse.
H hasn't let me reply to any of them as he says they are his parents, and he will deal with it.
The last email that I read branded me a "selfish, self obsessed control freak" and if I don't speak to them again then "aren't they the lucky ones" and I am controlling H. Apparently they always suspected I was an unsuitable match and would drive a wedge between parents and son but they thought it would be later rather then sooner. They do not wish to have further contact.
I am genuinely gutted that they feel this way. I know my relationship with them hasn't always been a bed of roses - theres times when I would gladly have gone mental at them! - but I had no idea that they seemingly HATED me this much. Theres also the bratski to take into account - have they been faking affection for him as well?
I am just stunned that so much has been released from a *** up with the rooms. I just can't make sense of it all anymore.
Sorry if this sounds self pitying!
