Alright, so I have a problem. I hate weddings. I've never enjoyed going to them because of the romance and the public displays of affection, and the dressing up. I don't even like cake. The problem with this is, I am getting married to my boyfriend in a couple of months. My boyfriend, who I swear, has more expectations of this wedding than I do.
I've never been a very feminine female. I grew up playing in the dirt and trees, scuffing up my knees at the skate park, and playing any video game I could get my hands on for hours. Now that I'm 23, not much has changed. I may not play in the dirt anymore, but I still play more video games than your average teenage boy when the new Call of Duty game comes out. I'm even a year away from graduating college with a degree in video game design. Needless to say, I am still not feminine.
I am proud to say I haven't worn a dress in 4 years, and I'm not about to start getting in one now. The problem here is, what do I wear, without subjugating myself to a dress, but also without wearing the same thing as my boyfriend? I'm a huge tomboy, but I'm not trying to look like I just came out of the butch lumberjack store.
My other concern is what to do about the actual wedding. I don't want some long speeches about love and blah blah blah. I'm not a romantic type, especially in front of people. It's uncomfortable and I kind of hate it. That being said, I still want it to be memorable for my boyfriend and I and I don't want to regret not doing something I should have when I'm looking back on that day.
My final issue... what do you do when you don't like cake? Do you smoosh pudding into each others faces?
Wedding planning is the worst. I need so major advice.