I think I want a stag weekend actually ?
I'm thinking surfing in Cornwall - but its quite a long way for me (and lots of friends) which adds to costs. My other concerns are that some people may not want to surf ... and also that it will be the weekend before the wedding and my wetsuit gives me a horrendous rash on my neck ? - I actually still have 'scars' from wearing it for 4 days in August!
The Lake District is just up the road, so I was thinking of finding a nice cottage there, and maybe doing one day mountain biking, and one day of 'go ape' - but I'd imagine there would be even more people less keen on this than the surfing - and for those that don't want to join in the 'activities', Newquay is probably a betetr place to spend a day doing other things than grizedale forrest! I would imagine some people may not come at all if the 'activities' are going to be too full on ...
I also considered a half day/full day learning and playing polo - but again, many wont be up for it, and its also verrrrry expensive.
Any other ideas? Would you go on a hend do with these sorts of activities planned (opting out will be fine, and obviously you wont pay for any activities you don't do ... but alternative entertainment may be a bit limited). For evenings I'd be thinking probably one night out - meal and pubs, and maybe one night in (to keep the cost down) - cook together and open a lot of bottles! Ideally staying in a cottage/apartment somewhere.
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