I’m so conflicted! please Help!

I sometimes think we should raise girls NOT to talk about their weddings until they are actually engaged, because I know so many who have promised various wedding roles to friends and family before they even had a boyfriend on the horizon, and of course, by the time they get engaged, what they want has nearly always changed!

I think the best thing is to be honest with your sister as soon as possible as the later you tell her your change of mind, the harder it is likely to be for both of you. Hopefully, she will understand that a real life wedding has to incorporate both your and your fiance's wishes, and so this change of plan from your 'imaginary' wedding is not in any way a rejection of her. As you suggest, it would also help if you can come up with an alternative. Could she perhaps travel to the ceremony venue with you and then your fiancé 'takes over' at the entrance? She could then follow behind you (with your bridesmaids, if you are having any). She could also be a witness.

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