I now understand why people elope or have micro weddings!
In the midst of planning a small wedding in seville, we figured we want a small wedding so why not get married in a city we love. Relations with my maternal aunt, cousin, uncle and my paternal cousins isn't great and I personally don't care if I don't see them again (the death of my grandparents, wills and shitty family dynamics has caused me to withdrew from what I deem a toxic family). Issue is my mother, the eternal peacekeeper thinks I should invite them even though she acknowledges they probably won't come. I completely understand why she thinks I should invite them and I agree to a certain extent but my issue is if they do turn up I'm essentially paying for them to have a good time and I don't particularly want to talk to them let alone share what is meant to be one of the happiest days of my life. Its such a waste of money that could be spent on an open bar for people we love. I haven't mentioned it to my fiancé as he's furious with them and wouldn't want them there.
Opinions much appreciated please.
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