Is 52 Too Old to be a Maid of Honour

I don't think it's too old. Definitely ask her if that's what you want! ?

Definitely not too old! I don't think ANY age is too old as it's just about your friends being there to support you, whatever their age. (If you think about it, probably not many bridesmaids are actually maids anymore... ?) I can't imagine her being uncomfortable just because another bridesmaid is younger. They're all adults and will surely get along just fine, being happy for you! If you're worried about her being insecure of her looks compared to your younger cousin, just make sure they all have a say in the dress choice and pick something they feel good in. Congrats and have fun planning!

I don’t think any age is old when it comes down to who you would like in your bridal party. If you want your SIL to be your MOH then ask her. She will understand that your having a varied age group for your party and from the ages you have provided there’s not a massive gap between people that anyone should be uncomfortable about.

Also its just like when you get your flower girls and MOH. (i know it’s not exactly the same but just trying to give piece of mind.)

Aww thank you all so much for your replies, that's really reassured me. I am definitely going to ask her, because we are so close, hopefully she won't be uncomfortable, like I say she is a very young 50 year old, so glam all the time more than me! ? and I will ask them all to just stick to one colour but any design that they feel comfy with.

Good luck to you all with your planning and I look forward to reading all about how you're getting on xx

Not too old at all - although don't forget if she is married the correct term is matron of honour, not maid!

Hi and welcome ?
I don't think it's too old at all, one of my bridesmaids is 49 and the other is 21.
They were given the option of choosing their own dresses within a certain colour scheme and ended up picking the same one!
So I say go for it, I'm sure she'll be thrilled ?
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