Is the groom supposed to look backwards?????

haha that would be funny...espec if its a private nick name! you'll need to post asap to let us know what happened!

I can imagine my OH making rude thrusting movements or some such in a very silly way if he approves. I will prob be laughing instead of crying which is no bad thing. I don't know if he will want to look or not, I guess it depends on nerves on the day. I would like him to watch me though, or at the very least have a glance and give me a smile.

oh gosh. i hope my OH doesnt call me his pet name for me...i dont want people to know he calls me enid!

you got me there trickers.

OB. i'm sorry sorry for your loss. my yhoughts are with you x

Yes, I am late to this. And yes, I'm bringing this post back up when it's calmed down but I don't give a hoot.

May I suggest you wind your neck back in and get off your high horse? OB is one of the few people on this forum that speaks her mind. That does not mean that she is intentionally rude or out to start an argument. If you want a fluff fest then bugger off over to Confetti!

As soon as I saw the title of this thread my initial thought was 'it's up to him, it's not a bloody stage show with a script'. And that was before reading any replies.

Sorry, are you the Hitched police? I'm entitled to my say as much as the next person.

Any my post was constructive, I told you what my thoughts were before I even opened the thread.

Don't you have some lines to go and practice or something? Heaven forbid, your H might forget to hold back a tear at the rehearsed moment or something. ?

And I think you'll find that OB brought the post up just before I did. Are you going to hound her for dragging it up'? No, didn't think so.

Because everyone is entitled to their opinion, whether it's constructive or late or whatever. That's the good thing about Hitched. HayleyMay criticized OB's comments and others agreed with her, HT is just expressing a contrary view. Its up to each of us to judge what we feel it contributes to the discussion.

The only person who brought this thread to this level was HayleyMay, who has in fact disappeared.

I saw blatant nonsense being spouted about a regualr hitcher who I happen to like very much. So I had my say. End of.

I said it first.?

So if someone had said yes, it is bad luck you'd have told him not to look?

Your answer is either:

Yes, in which case you WOULD be telling him what to do.

or

No, which would mean it was in fact a pointless post.

Anyways, I couldn't give a monkeys whether he looks at you or not. My main reason for posting was to balance the ridiculous opinion that HayleyMay (who now seems to have gone very quiet) gave of OB.

I don't think that's the popular perception of you OB. It's certainly not mine, if that means anything!

*spooky voice*

Or is it?

*dun dun dun!!!!*

*sorry couldn't help myself, it's been a long day

Sorry, thought you'd gone?

No, it is because I'm not as scary as Tricks. She could have bounced the thread from 3 days ago and no one would have dared to cross her ?

Nobody would dare.

#hitchedscariesthitchertwoyearsrunning

*taps foot*

What the feck happened here?

?

I do! It's all HayleyMay's fault!

A troll? Or just a muppet?

Yep!

Makes a sweeping statement like that and then scurries off leaving everyone else to battle it out. Niiice.

You decide. I'm not saying...

Sorry K, thought you flounced about 3 pages back? ?

Can't remebr what this thread was about now but I do have some Vodka if anyone wants some?

Based on this...

"I've only read the first page of posts, can't be bothered reading all 47 posts to be honest." (then proceeds to give an opinion on the course of events)

... I'm going with the latter.