This is more of a rant but if anyone could offer advise it would be appreciated I am feeling so down right now I'm beginning to wish we'd never planned this wedding I love him more than anything and we hardly ever argue but recently we constantly arguing over this wedding and guest lists and money I've give up. He doesn't seem to understand I'm stuck in the middle.
So far everything paid for has been either my parents or me he nor his family have paid for anything which is annoying as he is constantly wasting money on things for himself my mam is getting annoyed as to save money I've cut my guests down however he is refusing to do the same or compromise despite the fact he's not paying my parents say it's unfair on me when were paying and his family aren't yet he's having about 30 more guests than me. I tried to compromise by saying well I'll invite more friends for the evening but he kicked off at that. I don't think I would mind if they were helping but there not I know his family struggle with money while mine don't so I can see my partners point but at the same time I can see my parents why should it be us cutting our numbers down when were paying. It's causing arguments with everyone my mam has a go at me them he has a go at me for not understanding but it's him that doesn't understand. I'm trying to find a way to keep us both happy but he is refusing to compromise or discuss anything and I've give up I actually don't care about planning any more. This what meant to be a fun and exciting time but all it's done has caused arguments