Hi ladies, just need to vent a bit. Disclaimer first is that I currently have PMT so totally have no ability at the moment to work out how (un)reasonable i'm being!
Very long story short - woman I used to be fairly friendly with but now, for a whole host of reasons, I have nothing to do with anymore. I am still on good terms with her partner though who was previously a close friend, but obviously thats not quite the same now. Couple of years ago this woman starts up a hate campaign against me - doesnt win her any friends and her partner did his best to get her to stop being a dick. Eventually she got bored and stuck to bitching privately to anyone who will listen.
I'm not friends with her on facebook, but am with her partner, and end up seeing a lot of her drivel because she tags him in nearlt every post she makes. She also has a habit of making incessant posts counting down how many sleeps until the next up-coming event, and they are one of those couplea that post soppy messages to eachother on their walls every valentines, bday, anniversary of 1st shag etc
My partner and I and this couple have several murual acquaintences as we all initally met through the same social pool. Whilst we've been pretty low key about our relationship/wedding etc on social media (thats just how we are) we're obviously still counting down ourselves and really looking forward to our special day.
Yesterday I see an announcement on fb saying they've confirmed their wedding date - yep you've guessed it. I just felt really winded and upset when I saw it. I dont know if i'm just being silly (htb thinks I am I think) but the idea of seeing the countdowns to *our* wedding day, and the no doubt really sickly anniversary messages really has taken a tiny bit of the shine and excitement off of things for me.
Thats all I guess really - just wanted to offload
