So I'm having two bridesmaids and a man of honour (who's actually v happy to be called maid but just to distinguish here that I'm dressing a man!), I want to make sure he looks like part of the bridesmaids group rather than being mistaken for having one of the 'traditionally male' roles (i.e. groom, best man, ushers).
The colour scheme is sea and sand - so a pale turquoise/ocean blue and subtle/not to bling-y gold is what we're looking for. At the moment the plan is for the men to be in sand coloured suits with turquoise ties. Bridesmaids will be in turquoise dresses, probably gold sandals too. I'm thinking about a waistcoat in as close a match to the bridesmaids dress colour for MOH but I'm wondering about the tie and rest of the suit... whether this should match the other men or whether he'd blend in too much and not look like a bridesmaid?
(Nothing has been purchased yet so open to all ideas even if it requires a bit of a rejig of the other outfit ideas!)