moh at wedding last year - no longer friends

I feel you, my BM and I started to drift apart 4 months before the wedding when she met a guy and now that is all she is bothered about, he is quite controling IMO as she has moved down to his house and although is only 40 mins away we don't catch up as she says he doesn't want people coming to the house?!?! Then he always hasade surpris plans for wheneber we arrange to meet up and she ditches. Anyway, I feel the same as she is in pics and although she was good at the time of the wedding 2 months ago I don't hear from her and as sad as it is I have to accept that it is what it is and maybe, one day things may go back to how they were. I think your partner is right and you can't change things so you have to try and accept it, people come and go in your lifetime, just keep the good memories and maybe one day you will get back there x

View quoted message Thank you, I've found it really hard as I was meant to be her bridesmaid too.
She's also in my favourite photo of me and my dad so it's a shame as I can't crop her out due to the positions people are in lol. I guess like you say keep the good memories and accept that things change. I can't go back and pick someone else and I was happy enough at the time. If only we had crystal balls!
Thanks for sharing your experience as it helps to know I'm not the only one in a similar situation xx