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Mother in law behaviour

Junior, 20 April, 2025 at 08:14 Posted on Etiquette and Advice 0 14
Good morning all,


I'm new to the site and am looking for advice as to how to handle this situation.
Yesterday my fiancée had her hen do in London. There was a group of 27 that attended in total that was mixed with friends and both sides of the family.
They started off at a brunch. Of course it's the best place for a large group. I was sent a video by one of my groomsmans wife titled 'when you hit recored at the worst time'. Of course I viewed the video. In the video was my fiancée dancing on stage with and inflatable me. The inflatable had a strap on dildo. The future mother in law then proceeded to give the bj to the dildo. You can see everyone's reaction including my fiancee that it was completely wrong and they were shocked. She then followed up by saying 'what, you have to try before you buy'.
Granted I know behaviour on hens and stags are loose but I would expect better from the future mother in law. Not only this but my family were there also. My mother is no longer with us but if she was there I dread to think what would have happened.
I also accept that I shouldn't have seen the video at all. What goes on tour stays on tour type thing. With that being said her behaviour should have been tamed.
My fiancée is still in bed. She'll be fragile when she wakes up so have to approach the subject delicately.
I just wanted to gather everyone's thoughts on the matter.
Thanks in advance

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Latest activity by Thomas, 20 February, 2026 at 18:10
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    Figuring out how to talk about this is tricky. It reminds me of playing Doodle Baseball – you swing and sometimes miss completely, but each time you adjust your timing a little. Approaching this conversation with empathy and understanding is key. Maybe start by acknowledging that hens/stags can get wild, but then gently express your own feelings about the video and the impact it had on you, especially knowing your family was there. Good luck, and I hope you two can work through this.

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    Dealing with mother in law behavior can be really challenging, especially when boundaries get crossed. Sometimes it helps to stay calm, communicate clearly, and look for practical guidance resources like Forsyth Court Appeals can offer useful insight when situations escalate beyond simple family talks. At the end of the day, protecting your peace and maintaining respectful relationships matters most. You’re not alone in this, and finding the right balance takes time and patience.

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    I think it’s important to separate your fiancée’s feelings and actions from what someone else chose to do, particularly since it sounds like she was clearly uncomfortable too. When you talk to her, focusing on how it made you feel rather than placing blame will probably help keep the conversation supportive. This might also be something she’ll want to address with her mum herself in time. Take it gently, big events can bring out unexpected behavior, but open communication now will matter far more in the long run. @ Slope

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