My dad 50 died last night 4 weeks before my wedding

Just didnt want to read & run. Nothing anyone can say will make you feel better at the moment. My Dad died three weeks before i had my first child & his first grandchild was born so i can totally understand how you feel. Please take care of yourself xx

I'm so sorry to read about your dad. What a tough time for you. Rant, cry, talk as much as you need to, my advice would be not to bottle up or deny your feelings.

I hope you can find the time to grieve and have plenty of support around you. Don't be afraid to ask your friends/family/employer for the help you need as many will want to help but just not know how/what to say for the best.

So sorry for your loss. Whether your dad was at your wedding or not, he would still be incredibly proud of you.

A work colleague's mum died a month before Christmas and I know how hard is was for her - still is. Be kind on yourself. Your dad would want to see you happy.

I am so, so sorry to read this. Can't even begin to imagine what you are going through.

I honestly don't know what to say but I didn't want to read and run :-(

Sending you massive hugs x

Everything has been so wrong we expected him. To be here yes maybe not fully healthy but he was given until April, when we booked we didn't know about the cancer and it just spread so quickly, then we lost my nan, she didn't want to die before her son and now my dad has gone .. All within 3 months. My mums best freind died last year age 46 from cancer leaving four children youngest 5 , we haven't had much to look forward to except for this .... Please god let the day be ok because I don't want to be a tears mess all day , specially hearing certain songs etc

i wonder if my dad's side will come if it is near the funeral too

So very sorry for your loss xx

I'm so sorry hun. Everyone has said everything already, words won't make it any better. Just make sure you look after yourself, give yourself time and don't make any quick decisions. When the times right, think what you OH and your dad would have wanted. We are all here if you need anything, even just a rant. Don't bottle things up that's the mistake I made. Sending big internet hugs xxx

Very sorry for your lost.

Thinking of you

x

My deepest sympathies at this sad time. I'm sure that even given the history your dads ex wouldn't organise the funeral too close to the wedding.

So sorry you're going through this x

I really don't know what to say apart from I'm so sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you x

I am so sorry for your loss, I cannot begin to imagine how you are feeling right now. My thoughts are with you and your family.

I'm so sorry for your loss. My FFIL has just been diagnosed with this wicked disease and has been given 2-3 months to live. We get married in 4 months and he is so ill now we are trying to get our heads round the fact he wont be at the wedding. It's so difficult to know whether to postpone the wedding or to carry on with it, take some time out and try not to rush into anything. Advice i received has been to go ahead with it, he wouldn't want us to cancel it and it gives everyone something to look forward to at a horrible and sad time.

It's going to be a difficult day whenever you have it and different to the one you first imagined. But as others have said try and incorporate him into the day, there are lots of different ways you can do this.

It doesn't sound selfish to want the funeral sorted out sooner or to have it after your wedding. Can you speak to your dads ex about this?

Thinking of you and sending hugs x

I'm so sorry for your loss, sending internet hugs your way.

I'm so sorry to read of your loss. Hope you're taking care of yourself x