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Beginner October 2022 Bristol

My mom doesn't want to stay

Emily, 9 November, 2021 at 23:56 Posted on Planning 0 1
I'm feeling kinda crappy today. We found our perfect venue on Sunday, and it's "cheap" for a wedding venue in our area but it's still quite a bit of money for us. The price includes exclusive use of the building as well as cleaning fees for this etc. We're only having a small guest list as we don't really have any friends or extended family. In this price accommodation is also included and there's enough rooms for everyone to stay. But my mom and family don't want to/aren't able to stay the night. We're paying for it all so cost isn't an issue for them. That leaves us with 4 people out of 25+ who would be staying the night and I just feel sad. My fiancé has a point in saying why are we paying all this money for exclusive accommodation for no one to stay. There's no option to not pay it. This is the only venue we've found that suits us all round and in our price range and we don't want to have to compromise and have something we don't want but we also feel like it's so much money we're spending on accommodation and a wedding where literally all my family will only turn up for a few hours then leave. Smiley sad

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Latest activity by Charlotte, 10 November, 2021 at 08:34
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    I am really sorry you are feeling this way, it is always difficult when people don't seem to be invested in your day. Have they said why they wont stay? If you are paying for it I don't understand why they wouldn't want to stay. Maybe try speaking to them and explain how you feel and that you really want them to stay and be part of the day and extended part by staying. If they really wont stay and the venue cannot do anything about the price, which I guess is because they cant let the accommodation separately so is lost revenue, then you have to weigh up if the additional cost loss is ok for you, especially if it is your dream venue. If the total cost is still less than you had originally expected to pay and within your budget then I would go for it to have the venue you want. wish you luck and hope you can get it sorted

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