Hi all,
So the wedding planning is going okay and we have most of the big things booked but my sister in law to be is really putting me down and not wanting to get married with her there! Obviously that's not possible after all shes my partners sister but my god is she awful. She is so use to everything being about her in my partners family that she feels like she has to knock our wedding and make a big deal about EVERYTHING!
It all started because most of my wedding details were shared on facebook (not everything just big things like the date or been to book the church ect). Anyways she went off on one because she found out via facebook when our wedding was. My whole family found out on facebook! To me and my partner it made sense to send out a big group message so all our friends and family could see it instead of texting or ringing them all (we both have HUGE families). My sister (whos a bridesmaid) found out the same as she did but she has created a big fuss and gone OTT. My MOH is my partners younger sister as we have been best friends since we were little and i knew her before him. His side of the family are saying that because my MOH knows everything and my partners mum knows everything we should tell everything to his older sister aswell because shes left out. Is that true? am i in the wrong here? Im so angry with her for trying to ruin everything and seriously if i could seat her outside or not invite her i would!
Sorry for the rant, just need some advice before i blow my top at her!
Can i also add that we're having a sit down meal which is £40 a head and she has 4 kids and a boyfriend! So just for her is £240 and thats whats winding me up. That much for someone who will sit there looking like she has a slapped face because she doesnt like me!
So stressed about it i was seriously considering just going to the council house and getting married in secret and saying f*ck you to her but then she wins ☹️
