Nieces/nephews in wedding party

Not unreasonable, it is a tough one as you don't want to include some and not others, but I agree, the numbers are high so I would just stick to just your child. We have a daughter and 2 nieces who are all the same age (8) and a nephew who is 5, so we have them all in the bridal party as they are the only kids at the wedding so made sense to include them but I think 4 is the right number. If you had all 8 it could look a bit busy and would maybe be distracting in the photos. Also, the cost for that many outfits and shoes etc will build up so is worth having the conversation with him to explain that and you want to keep it simple. Good luck,

I would just stick to your little one. It's bound to cause ill feeling if you start picking some nieces and nephews but not others. And your baby wont' have to have a 'role' as such - just wear a cute outfit for photos!