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Curious June 2022 Essex

No one is interested in my wedding!

Giorgi, 5 July, 2021 at 22:16 Posted on Planning 0 8
You dream of your big day and think of every little details and plan it in your mind from childhood.


Then it finally comes along you get engaged and you think wow I’m excited but I’ve never been so deflated in my life.Absolutely no one has any interest in the wedding . Friends never ask or talk about the wedding and those I’ve asked if they are coming just say I dunno I’ll let you know.
I even went an tried wedding dresses on alone as every time I asked my friends they were always too busy.
My OH just moans about the cost of everything if I talk about it and I’m just feeling down about it all. Should I be feeling like this, should I even get married
HELP!

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Latest activity by Dandan, 8 July, 2021 at 12:36
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    Curious May 2023 Worcestershire
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    Hi Giorgi,


    I’m sorry your feeling like this, I don’t think your alone though, think most of us have felt like this at some stage...I know I have! We’ve waited so long and want everyone to share the excitement we are feeling. I personally think the thing to bare in mind is while us brides to be are eat, sleep and breathing all things wedding 24/7, it’s not necessarily everyone’s priority! Thank god we have these forums where we’re all on the same page 🤩
    Have you chose your bridal party,could you maybe try and schedule a day to do all things wedding on a future date that suits all? Maybe a wedding fayre or a day dress hunting.
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    Curious June 2022 Essex
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    Hi
    Thanks for your message.
    Wel at least I’m not alone.I think I was most annoyed that not one friend could even be bothered to go dress shopping with me.We’re not doing bridal party etc as it’s a small wedding only 15-20 guests in Cyprus. Everything is booked but I’m like why am I spending all this money on people who don’t care and haven’t got any interest whatsoever.
    How is your planning going? Where and when is your big day? Nice to have bride to bride chat 😊
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    Curious May 2023 Worcestershire
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    Ah hun, I’m sorry they are being rubbish. Did you manage to find a dress anyway? Have you spoke to your friends about how your feeling? Your wedding sounds amazing, when is it?


    We’re not until May 2023. We booked mid pandemic so wanted to push it out a bit to give the world time to settle down. Seems such a long time away but sure it will fly by and be here before we know it. So far venue and photographer is booked and just taking some time to look through other suppliers
    Happy to ‘bride talk’ whenever you want to 😘

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    Curious June 2022 Essex
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    Five dress shops later I found a dress lol it was an experience I tell ya.
    No I haven’t spoke to them I don’t really see the point I shouldn’t have to tell them to be a friend an be interested.
    Wedding is June 2022, everything is booked but flying out in September to see everything as pictures always look good so wanna see it for myself.I found a lot of suppliers I’ve contacted have been fully booked as obviously everyone pushed there wedding back but we only booked it this year.Yeah it does but will be here soon enough. Hav you arranged a hen do? I’m going to Vegas only but anyone is interested it but I mean it is Vegas lol
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  • Kayleigh
    Rockstar October 2023 Bristol
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    Hey, I've found that the further away it is, the less people seem interested. As it gets closer people will start to have more interest!
    Have you made a wedding website? It might be a good way to keep your guests updated without feeling like you're nagging at them. You can update it as and when and email the link across xx
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    Hi


    No I haven’t, hadn’t seen one to be fair. What sort of thing do you have on it?
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    Rockstar October 2023 Bristol
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    There's a link on Hitched to create a free wedding website x
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    It sounds beautiful and I’m sure you’ll love it when you visit in September.


    No idea on Hen Do location, I’m leaving it to the girls. Have told them what I absolutely don’t want and they can decide the rest!
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