We are planning a destination wedding in South Africa, and are only wanting close family to come.
This is due to the cost as we are paying for the full 3 day event in a game reserve ourselves for everyone, space is also very limited. Over and above this when we chose our wedding our dream was of sharing our big day with the people who have been closest to us over the past 15 years we have been together.
SO brother is upset as we have said he cant bring his girlfriend. Baring in mind they have been together 6 months, he has introduced her to us, they are not engaged or living together are we being unreasonable? I would just hate someone being there that i don't know. It was the opposite of what we were wanting.
We have even offered for him to travel with us, and for her to fly out after the wedding. I feel terrible, but also think we should be true to what we want and that he should try to understand.