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Non-Alcoholic Toast Drinks

Mrs-Riley, 2 July, 2015 at 09:47

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So we've finally booked our venue for after out church ceremony! So excited! Having a gorgeous two course meal, and serving our cake as dessert. We also have a beautiful veranda, that overlooks Chester Racecourse! Our contract does not include drinks, as we have been debating over what to provide...

So we've finally booked our venue for after out church ceremony! So excited! Having a gorgeous two course meal, and serving our cake as dessert. We also have a beautiful veranda, that overlooks Chester Racecourse!

Our contract does not include drinks, as we have been debating over what to provide for people. Our first thought was getting a number of bottles of wine for the tables, then we toyed with getting our own and looking at the corkage fees - but they were reaaally expensive!

Money is a big factor in the day, sadly. But we both would really like to provide drinks for people.

EDIT - in this post, I'm just talking about providing the drinks for the toast. There will be alcohol at the party, with a cash bar - we just won't be paying for any other drinks bu the toast drinks! Smiley smile

The place we're going offers a glass of prosecco for about £5.00 per glass, wine for about £15 per bottle and a jug of juice for £5.00 per jug. So I started to think...

How about lots of different jugs of fruit juices, then we take in our own purees and sauces, fruit and little cocktail umbrellas, and our toast drink could be non-alcoholic cocktails - that people can make themselves. It'd provide some entertainment - as we're not having a DJ - and I'll make little recipe cards up myself and decorate the table to fit with our coastal theme.

We asked the wedding co-ordinator and she is more than happy for us to do this.

How would you feel if you were offered a non-alcoholic cocktail for a toast drink? Would you think the bride and groom were a bit cheap?

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  • PrettyFlower90
    Beginner July 2016
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    I completely disagree with a lot of the posts on here. It is in no way up to the Bride and Groom to supply a minimum amount of alcoholic drinks at a wedding. The amount of money you pay for a 3 course meal, venue, transport if necessary, entertainment etc, there's just no way I would think twice if we weren't, as a guest, given a drink of something "proper" as "proper" means different things to different people. Alcohol isn't the only "proper" drink for people. You can get people one drink, you can guests a drinks package, or you can get nothing! If I heard someone was annoyed we didn't provide a drink I'd be a bit put out, I think it's rude.. I have toasted many celebrations with a range if drinks, the toast doesn't change if there's no alcohol.

    So I think if you want to go with a non alcoholic drink as a toast, go for it, it's your wedding! =) But I'd think nothing of it if I were a guest.

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    As an alternative, could you make a fruit punch, and buy a bottle of spirits to mix in? Would the venue allow this and you pay just 1 corkage fee?

    I would personally think is 'odd/different' to not at least include an alcoholic toast drink, unless the couple don't drink at all normally & the whole wedding is alcohol free. Maybe because I've never been to a wedding where alcohol isn't included to some degree.

    I wouldn't bother with mocktails making either, but if thats what you want to do, no reason you cant.

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