Hi all,
First 'new topic' post, so a proper hello to you all!
We took the decision quite early on in planning to not invite any children to the wedding. My other half's cousins all have a lot of young children between them, my side/friends not so much, but there are a couple. The decision was made mainly for numbers reasons - although it's not a small day 'do' - we're having 80 - not inviting children has meant we're able to invite most of the other friends and family members that we'd like to. Admittedly we're also not a particularly child friendly couple, we're not planning to have children ourselves, but if there had been less children in the mix then we would have had them included - it's not a 'we hate children' decision!
Anyway I started to send 'save the dates' out yesterday and suddenly felt wracked with guilt at the 'no children' decision. A couple of people have already commented/questioned this and I'm starting to feel really guilty or like some kind of child hating monster! I also feel bad for inconveniencing those who do have children and will have to sort childcare arrangements or perhaps even not come.
I think one of the things I've struggled with the most so far is keeping everyone happy, I'm quite sensitive and hate upsetting people, although I know this is inevitable in planning a wedding!
Has anyone else made the 'no children invited' decision? Was there a fallout or did people generally understand?