I don’t know if anyone else is feeling this way but with all the posts about embracing micro-wedding/ elopements have got me feeling down. If that’s what you and your OH want, then that’s great. But we supposed to be getting married in November after 10 years of being together and we want a big-blow out wedding. we understand all the ‘perks’ about having small weddings but it's just not what we want. we just wondered if anyone else is feeling this way or I'm being spoiled and should just be grateful to be getting married at all.