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Beginner October 2015

October 2015 brides....

MissMoo, 19 September, 2013 at 00:23

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Are you out there? Or am I the only crazy enough one to get married in that month? Especially in a barn?

Are you out there? Smiley smile

Or am I the only crazy enough one to get married in that month? Especially in a barn?

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  • LittleMissPanda
    Beginner October 2015
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    Stephied - Don't forget, you can't read your Good Luck thread until the night before your wedding otherwise you get spots ?

    BJNL - Glad to hear you got your confetti sorted, it is expensive for what it is but it looks so nice in photos.
    How is the weather where you are today? We actually have a little bit of sunshine ...
    I'm really tempted to buy a wedding umbrella but I know if I do I'll tempt fate ?
    You've just reminded me that I did hear somewhere that you should switch your normal drink for something with little colour (think mixer and lemonade, or white wine), good thing that's popped back into my brain!
    I'm sure you'll be fine with the pudding just sit as close to the table as you can ?

    Sparkly Bear - 10 days!! 10 DAYS!! ??
    Quick pass the coffee I need an energy boost ️☕️
    I can't believe we both have a good luck thread now, that is just insane. Nearly 2 years of planning will all fall into place so very soon!
    Sounds like your super duper organised, and I'm sure your OH won't forget anything. I'd number the boxes and tell him how many there are but I'm way to OCD sometimes ?
    Well done for ticking three things off the list, that's good going.
    I didn't do anything wedding related last night as I was having my hair done at my mums so I took the time to breathe and relax.
    I know what you mean about work I can hardly concentrate either!
    Ah I reckon your mum will come to the rescue ... mum's are good like that ?
    Haha love the idea of getting the personalised passport covers and luggage tags, you'll have to let us know whether you got an upgrade!
    Fingers crossed the sunshine stays, it's quite sunny here as well...

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    LittleMissPanda - Numbering the boxes is a brilliant idea! I don't know why i didn't think of that! I think this wedding has made me OCD sometimes! I was counting mint imperials the other day to go into our like bucket of sweets for the table, and then at the weekend I was counting seashells and lining them up to see which looked the prettiest together!

    Tonight I plan to get the place names written and see what other little bits I need to do!

    Have you picked up your dress yet?! Im getting mine Saturday, I am so excited! I'm also having false eyelashes fitted too! Never had them before, but i am confident they will look lovely! They seem to look good on everyone else!!!

    Hows your day going today? I feel quite busy, but its nice as it makes the time pass! I constantly feel like I am clock watching all day every day until it reaches hometime!!!

    xxx

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  • S
    Beginner October 2015
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    Morning ladies! Right, hope I haven't missed anything....!

    Lui - hows OH getting on with his stags? I did some cards and gifts yesterday too, my list has gone right down now to one or two things, which feels very refreshing! Have you much more to do? I can't believe it's almost our time...

    LMP - it's very very nearly here for you lovely! Your dress is absolutely beautiful chick, really elegant and stunning ❤️ I can't wait to see your pics! And yes of course I won't read my good luck thread ha ha, it will be difficult but I definitely do NOT want any spots! Gosh you must be SO excited now! What is it, 9 days??

    Rebeccafcr - I hadn't even thought of food spillage! I haven't mentioned it to the venue either so I guess I'll just lean right over the table and hope for the best ?

    LeighB3 - best of luck with all your planning sweetie, hope to see you and your pics real soon Smiley smile

    BJNL - your wedding play list sounds really fun! I delegated that task to OH but when I checked it yesterday, there are one or two curve balls in there I'll have to remove (Gangsters' Paradise for example!). Hopefully it's just a wind up....?

    Sparkly bear - sounds like you're well on top of your list too my love, well done! DTTB was hilarious, as usual! They were a couple of wrestlers and after the wedding they had a wrestling match, you know, as you do. Excellent idea re the matching travel items, I might have to pinch that idea for airport freebies ha ha. Where are you going on your honeymoon again?

    I had my vaccinations yesterday for the honeymoon, nowhere near as bad as I thought, although my arms are a little ouchy today! I've wrapped most of the gifts and written thank you cards for my mum and BMs (they're all gonna cry mwahahahaha!) I've given final numbers to venue and caterer...just need to re-do the physical table plan for the day as we had 10 drop outs last week (what are these people thinking at all!). Although we haven't paid the caterers yet, we had paid for their children's places in the creche so are £100 down so far. I just hope no one else wants to drop out at this stage....!

    Hope we're all well today ? xxx

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  • Sparkly Bear
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    Stephied9384 - We are going to Mauritius! Where about's are you going for your honeymoon?! Thankfully we only had to have 3 injections when we went to the docs, we had hep a, rabies and a tetnus booster! Which ones did you have?

    I've had a mini drama today, but all should be sorted soon. I bought my mum a pandora charm online at the weekend and its arrived today with a chip on it!!! I have called the store in the nearest town to us and if i take it in tonight they will swap it for me! Obviously this is excellent news, but I ordered it online as i was trying to not going into the main town as its miles away and I am short for time! At least they will be able to swap it for me though!

    I can't believe you have had 10 people drop out! I don't understand people sometimes! What kind of numbers are you having at your wedding?!

    My morning has gone kinda quickly, Ive booked some interviews and completed some placements (I work in recruitment!) so at least i have work to distract my mind from the pandora thing!

    I haven't written the bridal party thank you cards, i was going to give to them afterwards along with everyone else. You've got me thinking now if i should give them the cards with the presents on the morning of the wedding? They all have a few presents to open from us and I kinda thought that would be enough? Ive put the presents in a cute bag and written thank you on the tag!

    Hope you day is going well my lovely! xxx

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  • S
    Beginner October 2015
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    Ooh how lovely! That will be gorgeous, hot and relaxing hun! We're going to Sri Lanka for a week and Goa for a week, I needed tetanus, diphtheria, typhoid and hepatitis A ? ! Doc also said to buy some anti-malaria medication before we go - who'd have thought it'd be such a danger zone ha ha!

    Oh no re your mum's charm Smiley sad that's definitely something you can do without at this stage! It's good that they'll replace it, though still a pain as you'll have to go out of your way. That's a lovely gift though, I bet she'll love it

    Oh I know hun they're driving me mad, all OH's family! We did have 117 for day time but now it's just 107. We had to re-do the table plan every single day last week, it was awful! But hopefully that'll be it now (fingers crossed anyway!)

    Well I was going to give the majority of the thank you cards afterwards, but thought it would be nice to give BMs and our Mums and Dads on the day when we give them the gifts? Not sure what tradition says but I liked the idea Smiley smile I'm giving mum and BMs gifts on the morning as opposed to at the speeches (although this means mum will get two as can't be seen to be giving her nothing and MIL gets something ha ha!)

    I've done absolutely sod all today my love! Sat here and thought about my wedding ha ha ?. Now off out for a team lunch so I imagine the afternoon will be much of the same! xxx

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Hi ladies,

    Wow i have missed so much and I only went on a team building day with my company. My phone was buzzing all day! I’m trying to catch up on it all but knowing me I will miss something and if i do I am really sorry!

    LMP – So 10 days to go my lovely! How’s everything coming along? Not long until you get to read the card I sent haha! Hope you and Mr Panda are just having a relaxed time. Oh forgot to ask how did the hair trial with the bridesmaids go? Did you pick a style? Did they like it?

    You may have a good luck thread, and you are a good panda to not read it. It’s so crazy that the tread has been started for you and Sparkly bear! So so crazy!

    I like your idea of the venue placing something extra so you can use that to cover you while you eat. Clever thinking!

    Are you ready?

    Sparklybear – You didn’t dream it lovely, OH is off to Amsterdam this weekend. He’s excited and got all his stuff together, however he is not excited for the 1pm wakeup call so he can get the coach to Luton Airport. They are all flying from there as its central to everything. Gutted for him as Birmingham is only a 20 min taxi ride away. Oh well hehe!

    Hows everything going with you? Sorry to hear about the charm but hey the shops going to change it and that’s awesome to hear.

    If it helps I’m giving all but the parents the gifts before the actual wedding because they will have nowhere to keep them as we are in a barn and there isn’t an accommodation there, so this way they can keep them at my parents and then come to collect them the next day. It may be different for you through if you have accommodation attached to your venue.

    Bridgetjones – What confetti are you going with? I’ve got some natural confetti because our place doesn’t allow the paper type. If you are having the paper type it may be best to double check with your venue to make sure its ok, I know a lot of places dont really allow it any more.

    Rebecca – Love the apron and extras! Fab idea!!

    Stephied – He hasn’t gone yet lovely, his trip starts 1am on Friday morning, told him not to wake me because I have work and I become a grumpy Lui when I’m tired. I haven’t got much more to do, just got to finish the card holder and do a few more things. Not sure. Got to pay the venue tomorrow, it’s scary having that large amount in my account hahaha. How are you coming along with your list?

    I’ve got to hand over the music stuff tonight so I’m going to write a massive email to them and get OH to check. Its all the little things that are happening right now and with work its so crazy....! Had to spend this morning in Ikea due to work. Haha!

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  • bliss_balloons
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    Wow I haven't been on here in a while but can't believe how close some of you are now! Good luck to everyone who's wedding is coming up it really does go so fast but it's brilliant, would love to do it again. lol

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    Hey ladies, I'm sorry it's been so long since I was last on here, I just couldn't keep up with how fast the thread was moving but I need some advice... my wedding coordinator has left with less than six weeks to go. This is the third wedding coordinator that has left this year, the events manager (who I complained to after the second one left) emailed me at 11.37 on Monday night to tell me the news and to say she will now be overseeing my wedding. However, she is away on annual leave from the 1st to 14th of October. I asked for a meeting this weekend as she also doesn't have the paperwork with all the details that me and the last coordinator had worked on and keeps asking me for a copy of this! She can't meet me this weekend, I can't meet her during the week as she suggested because I work... I am now furious and have asked to speak with someone more senior, I can't meet her the weekend that she gets back as that is my hen do! I am just so stressed and need any advice that you might be willing to give.

    Sorry if this is a bit rambly but I'm just so cross right now.

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    Oh no hallowedding, try not to panic! We went through 4 or 5 but it wasn't really a problem for us. Just make sure you sit down with the new coordinator and go through everything. If there's anything specific you've agreed make sure you get it in writing.

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  • M
    Beginner October 2015
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    Well OH lost his job yesterday. Total bummer. Discussed what we would do but as everything is paid we are having the wedding anyway and work around it. Trying not to get stressed again!

    This weekend we are checking/paying/signing off on the cake, the flowers and the balloons/childrens gifts plus signing the reception venues final contract and handing over the afternoon CD - busy time! I also have an appointment at the doctors on Friday for a hep A jab (too late for rabies jab)

    17 days for me!

    Things outstanding after this weekend are:

    Stationary - OOS (needs reprinting due to change in bridal party), table plan, table numbers and names plus guest book. Lady is away until 28th but has me as priority when back from holiday.

    Sort out music with evening DJ

    Await personalised wedding cake topper to arrive (just signed it off!)

    Best Man and FOG gift purchase

    Write speeches, write BM/Usher to do list

    Get photo of Dad reduced for my locket to wear

    Pass local banns to our church/do run through of service (done 8th Oct) and general phone/check with suppliers

    Ummm.... thats IT after this weekend! Wow!

    Scared we have good luck threads - will be more scared in a weeks time when mine is up there! :-O

    BridgetJones - your comment that the shoes were superfly made a 52 year old man feel very trendy! pmsl!

    He has since been dancing around singing 'I have superfly shoes! Superfly! Superfly shoes!'

    Wish I'd have recorded him! hahaha!

    His suit is off the peg from his usual shop - it is a shiny grey so looks quite dofferent for him - he usually wears pin stripe or dark suits.

    Cat D - Good news on your hangers! :-)

    The caricatures of composers sound interesting - which composers? Who has done your caricatures? (We are musicians hiring a caricaturist so very curious!)

    We are having brass instrument makers as our table names - Sovereign, Imperial, York, Sterling and Maestro.

    LMP - Very glad you have a solution to the ring problem! Glad I could help :-) I am very jealous of your BM though - I have put a stone ON since choosing my dress :-( It still fits, but I kind of feel a bit ashamed of myself!

    Lovely dress too - mine has the rouching in the middle too so I am biased, but it really suits you :-)

    Sparkly bear - no idea of where we plan to stay! Think Dominican Republic is beating Cape Verde and Mexico though on price and heat - it will all depend on our guests generosity! If you have any recommendations etc though please feel free to share!

    I also have a spare sixpence if you need one?

    I tried false eyelashes and am not having them. If you aren't used to them they aren't very comfy and I was worried I'd just rub them all day or they would fall off! Don't think you have to have them - good mascara can do a pretty good job too!

    Thanks for the reminder of thank you cards. A friend of ours did the thank yous via postcards which was lovely! We might do the same :-)

    Rebeccafcr - I am a spiller too! I discussed this with my OH. Even though we are having a cream tea, I am still more than capable of spilling sandwich fillings down me!

    I was going to look at comedy bibs etc. but my OH got upset when I mentioned it..... I think he may have got them for me! I'll laugh it off and be fine with it - I'd prefer to wear a bib than damage the dress (and in a corset, I'll have a personal TV tray in the form of cleavage! hahaha!

    Leigh B3 - if you get chance to see this good luck at your wedding too! :-)

    MrsFRtobe - make sure to celebrate your birthday - mine was a couple of weeks ago and it didn't even register due to wedding organising. Ps. Happy birthday!

    Stephied9384 - how awful for so many to drop out! Was your RSVP date early/was there good reason? Nothing more irritating than guests who can't make up their minds!

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Stepied9384 - Sri Lanka and Goa sounds amazing! ? Where are staying for each of them?! Have you things planned for the days?! 107 for the day is lots of people! Its like almost double the size of my wedding! We are only having 61/62 (i cant remember!) in the day and then about about 10 at the night time! We both have such small families! I am giving out all presents in the morning, except I am also doing flowers for the mums during the speeches as i thought it would be nice for them! I hope your team lunch goes well! Sounds lovely! I have a team meeting at 3:30, so just trying to prep for that as I want to be able to leave at 5 and get into town to get this charm!

    Lui - Thank you for the goodluck thread! ? I haven't read it as I don't want to get spots! When can they be read though? is it the evening before the wedding?! That's a shame your OH can't fly from Birmingham, its so close to me too and for the Honeymoon we are having to go to gatwick! Everything is all good with me thank you lovely! I am just finding it difficult to concentrate at work because I am so excited!When do you finish work for your wedding?

    BlissBalloons - when was your wedding lovely?! Ive been away from the thread for a while so I am a little out of date with everything!!!!

    hallowedding - I am so sorry to hear about loosing your wedding coordinator. We have been through 3 in two years - thankfully this one has stayed put! Do you have a copy of the notes you made with the previous wedding coordinator? Although surely the wedding coordinator would have left your notes on a file at the venue? Failing that, can't they contact the wedding coordinator that left and get her to return the notes she has? Hope this sorts its self out for you my lovely!!!!

    misslynx - I am so sorry to hear about your OH, and i know how it feels. I have been made redundant three times this year and its pants. What kind of work does he do? Will he look at getting something secured before the wedding? At least you do have everything paid for. it still sucks though. Sending you some internet hugs!! ? Good luck with your jabs on Friday! You'll have to let me know which destination you choose! Once we've booked i'll let you know which hotel we are in! When are you looking to go away next year? You sound very organised with your list! Its scary how fast it suddenly seems to be approaching! What time do you get married?!

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  • bliss_balloons
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    You must be so excited now sb!! I got married on the 23rd of August, writting that has just made me realise it was a month ago today lol. I have a wedding report knocking around somewhere if you fancy a nosy. How are your plans coming along?

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  • Sparkly Bear
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    I am rather excited!!! Happy 1 month anniversary!!! are you doing anything to celebrate?!

    Oooo yes, id love a read of your report! I shall have a look tonight when i get home form work! xx

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  • LittleMissPanda
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    Blimey you lot are chatty today ?

    blissballoons - Happy One Month Anniversary ❤️

    hallowedding - Sorry to hear your having a rough time with wedding co-ordinators, I'm afraid I can't offer any advice as I've never dealt with one, But I hope you get it all sorted and in the between have a weird Internet hug ?

    Lui - Ooh did you have a fun team building day?
    I can't wait to read the card you sent me, OH has hidden it from me so I can't open it early!
    Oh yes I forgot to say the BM's hair trial went really well, I'll flash some pics tomorrow ?
    I'M SO NOT READY!!

    misslynx - Oh sweetie that totally sucks about your OH's job ☹️?
    Hopefully it'll get sorted soon.
    Doesn't look like you have too much left to do, hope it's all going ok.
    Don't feel bad for gaining weight, my weight is so up & down that my seamstress won't do my final fitting until 4 days before my wedding!
    Isn't the rouching lovely? I like it as it hides all my wobbly bits ?
    May I ask where you got your sixpence from? It didn't even occur to me to get one and I don't know if I'll have time now ?


    Sparkly Bear - I swear that my OCD has become worse during wedding planning, I'd never normally number boxes but it seemed like a sensible plan! I can honestly say that I haven't counted mint imperials but I did have to sit there counting out mini pieces of rock and made sure that my favourite family members got the biggest pieces ?
    Ooh hope you get all your name places done ok, I'll bet there isn't much left for you to do now.
    I haven't picked up my dress yet, my seamstress needs to take it up a little bit more and she wants to do a final fitting on Tuesday next week as my weight is so up and down she's trying to leave it as late as possible. But she only lives 5 minutes down the road from me so I'm not worried.
    Will you flash your dress when you've picked it up? I'm ashamed to say I've forgotten what it looks like...
    Sorry to hear you had a drama with the Pandora charm, what a pain in the bum! At least you can get it changed today for a new one.
    Have had a busy day today but it's gone quickly which I like, hope you've had a good day.
    Did I read somewhere that you're having false eyelashes? I totally love them, I can't wait to have them again for the wedding!

    Stephied - Aw thank you for complimenting my dress. According to my niece I look like Cinderella, I'm happy with that haha!
    10 days for myself, Sparkly Bear and I believe rachhj as well. Literally cannot wait to read my good luck thread, I'm such a saddo!
    Glad to hear your vaccinations didn't hurt too badly, and well done for getting most of the gifts & cards done.
    Sorry to hear you've had 10 people drop out that is quite rude, hopefully everyone else will turn up and have a wonderful time ?

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    Beginner October 2015
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    LMP - I have 2-3 spare sixpences.

    If you want to send me your address I can mail you one as good luck :-)

    If anyone else needs one I can send you one too if I have enough!

    My Mum went on a hunt and the market man gave her half a dozen for the same price as one. Have already given a few away.

    diane _ bonser (but no spaces) at yahoo dot co dot uk if anyone would like one, Thats my spammier mail address so it doesn't really matter if bots impact it!

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  • M
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    BJNL--30 sleeps to go! aargh, eek! its just so exciting Smiley smile its my hen weekend next weekend which I'm so looking forward too and I'm going to see shrek the musical this weekend with family.

    lhow have i gone from 12 months to 30 days so quickly!

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  • AnnaMolly
    Beginner October 2015
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    Oh my goodness, I can't keep up! You can't be away for a day on this thread Smiley winking

    It really feels like it's all go go go for everyone now which is so exciting. It's nearly our month, arrrrgghhh!

    Our evening invited arrived from vista print today and they are so cool. Very pleased (and slightly ashamed we haven't yet sent any out ?).

    Its my not-a-hen-hen-do on Friday. I have no idea what is happening but I have warned my bridesmaid that no plastic penises better be involved ?

    I'm so looking forward to seeing people's just married flashes. Eeek, excitement!

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Sparkly Bear - Not all confetti is dyed. I think that most of it is natural these days so I'm sure it will be fine Smiley smile Confetti arrived today, it's dried flowers and looks like a box of weeds ha, ha!!! £40 for a tiny box of weed looking confetti!! I hope it makes for a good photo Smiley smile

    Excited for you xxx

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    Beginner October 2015
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    LMP - So excited for you, you sound like you're on cloud nine. Wow two years of planning ... We are getting married 14 months after Justin proposed and that has felt like a long time. It feels like it's ages away but on it's only 4 and a half weeks away. I'm still waiting for it to speed up but when the day arrives I'll want it to go slowly and it will fly by Smiley sad

    Xxxx

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    Lui - I have natural confetti, I'm hoping it'll look a little prettier when it's put in the organza bags. A colleague has also loaned me an ornate metal basket that I will spray, maybe gold Smiley smile

    XX

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Hi Guys

    So much excitement and anticipation in the threads now Smiley smile I love it!

    Now the confetti is in the bag, well almost I need to put it in 80 organza bags I am now moving onto other décor. Autumn is a part of our theme and I have been scrambling around in local fields gathering conkers for the last few days. My OH called me mental tonight! I think my conker gathering days are coming to an end so I'll move onto the next one Smiley smile

    MrsFrTo Be - 30 sleeps AAARRRGGHHHH!!!! OMG!!! I didn't think I could get any more excited but you just did it!!! How will I last 30 more sleeps? I think I must just pop Smiley smile

    Miss Lynx - So sorry to hear about you OH's job Smiley sad Like you say at least you have covered the wedding costs and hopefully he'll find one soon x

    B x

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  • Lui
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    Hi ladies,

    Haha I didn’t realise how chatty we were until I was out of a conversation! I’m so behind. Haha! Oh dear!

    Anyways lets get to it!

    Bridegetjones – I didn’t even know natural confetti was dyed, thought it was just dried flowers! Sorry if you mentioned it was natural previously, as mentioned I’m pretty behind on things, one day out of the office and I miss alot haha! I’m sure you will have amazing photos with it, does it also smell amazing?

    MrsFRtobe- EEP not long, those days will go so quickly i bet!

    Misslynx – I’m sorry to hear about your OH and hope he finds a new awesome job soon! Its good that your still going ahead with the wedding, as you mentioned you have paid for alot and it also gives him something to look forward to in all the mist of losing his job. Big hug lovely!

    Dont worry about weight, im up and down and right now im eating so much and not exercising because I’m so tired! I just cant help it and food tastes so good! I’m just doing things like taking the stairs and walking extra places. Apparently my close friend said wedding stress helps lose weight so fingers crossed.

    Annamolly – Have they not given you much to go on?! Are you excited? Ohhhh what are your evening invites like? Also are you scared that soon we know the results of the London Marathon ballet? I’m actually a little bit scared and excited and really hope I get in.

    Sparklybear – Its ok lovely!! You cant read it until the day before or you break out in to terrible spots and no one wants that now! Hehe! Ohhhh where about

    you then my lovely? I know but its technically the central point for all of them, just glad its not me. Are you staying over the night before at Gatwick? Where are you heading off to on your honeymoon?

    I’ve saved alot of holiday (all of it almost) and i finish at 1pm on the 28th and then I don’t go back until the 30th November so i’m pretty darn excited for all that sleep coming my way haha!

    Stephied – I must of missed it but I’m sorry that 10 people have dropped out

    Hallowedding – I’#m sorry to hear that lovely, it may not be too bad, I know its a stressful job so alot of people do leave, as long as they have left notes and you talk through with the coordinator then everything should be fine, dont stress my lovely.

    LMP – It rained and I was cold but therewas cake so it was about 50/50 haha! I broke a nail on my little toe as well so now my foot really hurts as it broke all the way down L

    Hahah good for Mr panda! Guess what, i found the first bunch I ordered. I knew I would and you know i would too! So annoying hahaha! Oh well, it’ll be good for someone elses wedding I guess haha!

    Cant wait to see your photos.

    Is it bad to say im not ready for you to get married hahaha!!

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Good Morning Ladies!

    LittleMissPanda - We are into single figures!!! Its 9 days till our weddings!!!! OMG!!!!!!! ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? I am so excited!!!!! lol about the rock! sounds just like something I did with our favours!!!! what is this wedding turning us into hey!!!! I will definitely flash a pic of the dress, I don't think i have put a pick of it up before! I am having Mori Lee 1864!!! The pandora charm is all sorted now, we went into the city last night and exchanged it, then we went for dinner and I had a few too many wines and now i feel so rough this morning! Ive just made myself a green tea in the hopes that this helps!!! How was your evening? Yes you read correctly, I am having false eyelashes! I have never had them before! How long do they last?! I am getting them fitted the thursday before the wedding so that they last longer for the honeymoon!

    AnnaMolly - your not-a-hen-do-hen-do sounds interesting! Do you know anything about what has been planned? We went to Champneys for mine and it was lovely. I don't really like going out/away without the OH and Champneys is only 25 mins down the road from me, so was ideal!!! You must report back on Monday and tell us all about it!!!!

    Lui - Definitely don't want any spots! I have been drink water and green tea like mad women! We aren't staying at Gatwick the night before as out flight doesn't depart until 21:05 so we are just driving down on the morning of the Tuesday! It shouldn't take us to long from ours. We are in the East Minds (not far from you if I remember correctly!) so will take about 3.5 hours and in the middle of the day the traffic should be better! At least that's what I'm hoping! We are honeymooning in Mauritius, Are you off anywhere are your wedding my lovely? You must be so excited for all your time off!

    Love and hugs to all, xxxx

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  • LittleMissPanda
    Beginner October 2015
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    Morning everyone, how are we all today?
    Weather is perky up here which is fabulous! Hoping it continues...

    misslynx - That's lovely of you to offer to send a sixpence as good luck, thank you ?
    I've sent you an email now (from my work email, ssh don't tell on me!), if you need anything borrowed let me know I'm sure I can find something to send you.

    MrsFRtobe - 29 sleeps for you now!! Are you excited for your hen do next weekend?

    AnnaMolly - Ooh your not-a-hen-do sounds intriguing, I wonder what you'll be doing...?
    I can't wait to see some flashes either!

    BJNL - That's the funny thing, I've willed time to speed up whilst I was planning as I wanted the day to arrive but now I want it to slow down so I can be sure everything's ok yet I know the day itself will go quick!
    ? nothing wrong with conker gathering!

    Lui - Aw bless you it sounds like you had a bit of a moo day yesterday ☹️
    You said you'd find the first bunch, that's so typical!!
    Haha it's fine I'm not ready to get married either! Still can't believe it's so close...

    Sparkly Bear - OMG what the heck?! ?
    9 DAYS!! Where did the last 24 months go??
    Your dress is absolutely gorgeous, I cannot wait to see some flashes!
    Glad to hear the Pandora charm is all sorted but sorry to hear your a little bit wine-d this morning. hope you feel better soon.
    My evening was lovely, my MOH and I went for dinner and then we went back to mine. She helped me check all the accessories that I'd got her & BM, and made sure her shoes still fit! We wrapped everything up in tissue paper and then put all the bits in with their shoes, so we now only have 2 boxes to take to the salon rather than lots of different things in different bags.
    Silly I know, but I feel better now that's done.
    Ah I totally love it when I have falsies! How long they last depends on what ones you have. I have the ones that are glued just above your natural lashes, so they last 2 weeks before dropping out on their own. But you can have ones that are glued in with your natural lashes and they last about 4 weeks, but your supposed to have them infilled to keep them going.
    I'm having mine done the Friday before the wedding, so they should last for my mini moon and the week after ?

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  • R
    Beginner October 2015
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    Morning ladies,

    ooh, it's all going on now isn't it!

    For you ladies up first, the weather is looking good Smiley smileSmiley smile lets hope this indian summer holds out!

    Misslynx, sorry to hear about your OH job. The timing sucks... but i’m sure it will work out and he’ll be on to something new soon.

    My OH had his stag last weekend, so that's all the pre wedding festivities done.

    This weekend... tomorrow I have my hair trial... can't decide what way to have it tho!

    Saturday morning I'm at the seamstress to pick up my dress. I just hope it's ok...was dreaming last night that the dress was ruined....

    Saturday lunch back to the hairdressers to have my hair coloured... never had my hair fully coloured before... but want my stray greys covering!

    I'm trying not to overthink things as it does fill me with stress! Irrationally... I know there is no need!

    xx

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Sparklybear – Your not far indeed my lovely! It shouldn’t be too bad but the M25 and its roadworks! Ohhhhh that place is beautiful, I really want to go but OH likes activity places (i dont) and wants to go somewhere, where there is things to do! (boooooo! Hahah).

    We haven’t decided and really cant afford to book one prewedding so we are asking people if they wish to gift money to we can have one, I’ll just be happy with the break to be honest.

    I am so looking forward to my time off as i need sleep haha! Almost 11 months with 3 days off is hard! Dont do it people! Haha!

    Ohhhhh I cant wait to see a flash of your dress.

    Rebecca - sounds like you have a nice weekend ahead of you.

    What are you thinking for your hair? Have you checked on pinterest?

    I need to colour my hair too, i’m holding out to the same time as you just so the greys dont pop back, never had greys until I planned this wedding hahaha!

    Oh no, want a pants dream. Im sure your dress is beautiful and fits amazingly.

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    Beginner October 2015
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    LMP- Yesterday was crazy, I was in Ikea, then cleaning an office then in an phone interview and then talking to an agency. All in all a random day in the life of a customer service/HR assistant hahaha!

    Can we hide under the duvet until we are ready? I mean I’m 5 weeks away and I’m not ready hahaha! I still need something old. I’m going to text my MOH now see if she has an old pearl bracelet I can use for the ceremony.

    Haha its always the way! Oh well, the cards are safe at my parents as spares lol!!

    So what are you doing as your last weekend as a single lady! *sings beyonce*

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Hi Lui,

    Well, I'm torn between...

    Scooped to the side, or half up half down like these:



    I'm so indecisive! I have changed my mind over more elements to this wedding! its insane!

    xx

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Don't worry, I have too Rebecca!

    I really like like the second one! I would get a hot neck with my hair scooped to the side. However both are stunning. Either one you pick, you will look awesome.

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  • LittleMissPanda
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    Rebeccafcr - Ooh fingers crossed this Indian Summer holds out for all of us, wouldn't that be lovely ?
    I like the hair pictures that you've flashed their both very pretty. I agree with Lui though I'd definitely get hot having my hair all styled on one side. Why don't you ask if you can see how both styles look on you? One might suit you better than the other ?
    Oh what a horrible dream! I'm sure your dress is fine, bet you can't wait to see it again!
    Irrational stress is something we're all at I think ?

    Lui - Yup, that's a random day alright!
    I think we should be allowed to make blanket forts until we're ready now, much better plan that facing the world and trying to adult...






    I can't believe you've only had 3 days off in 11 months, you truly deserve a good rest!

    ARGH my last weekend as a single lady ... why did you say that I'm totally freaking out now ?

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Hi ladies, again I've been rubbish with keeping up with this thread... thanks for all the responses. I'm not normally one to panic, it's just with five weeks to go and the new coordinator going on annual leave for two weeks we can't find a date to meet each other, and on top of that all my paperwork must have been mislaid because she has asked again if I can send her the final details sheet which the venue asked me to fill out (this is a five page booklet with every last detail on it) but I don't have a copy! I've heard from the operations manager who has said he is in a meeting for most of the day but will be calling me later. I know things will come together, I was just all het up yesterday and feeling much calmer now.

    on another note, LMP I missed your flash of your dress so I'll go back and have a look for it when I get home because I'm on my phone right now and it doesn't work too well with the new layout. also thanks for the weird internet hugs

    Bliss I can't believe it's been a month already, think I only read and commented on your report a few days ago

    Rebeccafcr I really like the second hairdo, very pretty

    I am absolutely dying to flash you guys, I picked my dress up on Sunday... I'm just reluctant as a colleague let slip that she is a lurker on the forums here so I might just wait until the day after and do a big post wedding flash instead (unless anyone wants a cheeky little private message flash)

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  • LittleMissPanda
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    Aw hun, keep calm it'll all be ok ?
    I want to see a flash of your dress, please please please!!

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