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Beginner October 2015

October 2015 brides....

MissMoo, 19 September, 2013 at 00:23

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Are you out there? Or am I the only crazy enough one to get married in that month? Especially in a barn?

Are you out there? Smiley smile

Or am I the only crazy enough one to get married in that month? Especially in a barn?

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    Beginner October 2015
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    I always love a dress flash!

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Afternoon all Smiley smile wow it's all go in here now ha ha!

    Hallowedding - do you have a new coordinator yet then? I'm sorry you've had such a stressful time with it, that would have driven me mad! Hopefully the next one will be able to stick around and sort everything for you. I want to see your dress too! Just smudge your face out a bit ?

    Misslynx - really sorry to hear about OH losing his job sweetie. Fingers crossed he finds something real soon and it doesn't put too much of a dampener on your big day

    Sparklybear - ha ha we are having a huge wedding as OH's family is massive. I have two tables of guests (including family) out of he twelve we are having! It's a bit ridiculous really, but they kind of "come with" him so I suppose I had to accept it! Oooh single digits too, how exciting!! I'm so jealous of you guys a week ahead of me ha ha! Glad you managed to get your charm sorted too hun

    MrsFRtobe - have fun at your muscial this weekend Smiley smile

    Annamolly - we didn't even give evening invites out to some people, OH's mum kindly just invited people along and gave them all the info! Got loads left over in the house! Hope you have a lovely hen party tomorrow as well

    BJNL - I'm having an Autumn theme too ? one of my initial ideas was gluing red/orange leaves to the inside of jars and putting little tea lights inside (stolen from pinterest) but despite having about 50 types of real and fake leaves, I just can't get any of the buggers to stick to the glass! So I gave up on that idea at the weekend, after pestering friends and family for glass jars for the past two years! They're gonna be looking around on the day wondering what I did with them all!

    Rebbecafcr - good luck for your hair trial! I was a little unsure about mine, weekend just gone, but the hairdresser was so lovely and patient, she listened to all my ideas and said she would stay as long as she had to to make sure I was happy with what she did. I'm sure yours will be able to help out if you're a bit stuck. Can we have a flash afterwards?! ?

    Lui - everything feels so busy busy busy at the minute doesn't it?! I blink in work and the day's over! I wanted to dye my hair too (I have a few little strands of wisdom too!) but now that I'm getting extensions sorted for the wedding I won't be able to! I'll just have to hope none of the little critters show up on the photos. My hair is really dark (like yours) so I can see them really easily!

    Well ladies, today I bought my first non-wedding related item in a long time! A new pair of ankle boots for Autumn! Felt so nice not having to justify the expense (they were only £60!) to myself any more ha ha! Also booked a little treat day for mum and me the day before the wedding; I'm having mani and pedi and some french shellac put on, with a massage. I didn't want to keep mum waiting all day so I booked for her to have a massage and a facial too as a surprise. Then on the evening before all my family will be up from down south and we're going for a nice meal out, which will be lovely cos I hardly see them! So the day before the wedding is shaping up nicely now too ?

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    So i go away from my HR desk for one minute and it’s like a flood of messages haha!

    LMP – I love those MEMEs, laughing at my desk when i saw them, I just looked so crazy hahaha! I can barely adult on a normal day so trying to adult for a wedding is super hard haha.

    Technically I’ve had 5 as I took 2 days off sick for my migraine. I haven’t been in the office for that length of time; I’ve been in training and doing things. But still work my socks off. Even went on a Law update on my birthday! That’s how driven I am haha.

    Halloweeny – It will all work out ok lovely!! Ohhhh I would like to see your dress too!! Damn sneaky work colleagues sneaking around heheh.

    Stephied – I am totally with you, I blink and times gone and now my work is just piling up, I’m piling up my work as I have 4 ½ weeks before i finish work and all my projects need to be wrapped up so I’m just so busy right now.

    Haha those grey critters are annoying hehe! Ohhhhh extensions! How long are you having them? Will you flash when you have them in?

    Ohhhh I like your little treats that you have booked and I cant wait to have money back too, however I have 2 more paydays that I’m using for the wedding so my first payslip thats all for me (apart from rent and bills) is November. Feels so long. I’m not sure what I’m going to do with my wages when I have them back.

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Hello Ladies

    What will we do once the weddings are over? Also where is Miss Moo? She started the post but haven't seen any posts by her ...

    Good to hear all your news today and with each sleep we are one step closer!!! 9 days to the first weddings ... so exciting. My hen is that day, I thought it was two weeks away and realised it's next weekend! Maybe it's closer than I realise ...

    I'm pleased to announce that I've stopped searching for conkers for part of the wedding décor. It's good to be free of them.

    Lui - no need to apologise about confetti, hope I didn't sound impatient, not intentional Smiley sad When I was looking on tinternet the companies said that it's unlikely that natural confetti made from coloured flowers would transfer colour but they couldn't guarantee it, especially in wet weather. I think that they are just covering themselves, no pun intended.

    Off to stuff 60-70 organza bags with confetti

    B x

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  • LittleMissPanda
    Beginner October 2015
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    Happy Friday everyone, are we all looking forward to the weekend?

    Stephied - My OH is in the same position as you, his family only make up about 25% of our numbers ?
    He didn't realise my family was so huge but he's had to accept it bless him.
    Ooh your non-wedding purchase sounds fun I can't wait to finally have money again!
    Your day before your wedding sounds lovely, what a nice surprise for your mum ?

    Lui - You know whenever you need a random meme I'm always able to help!
    Aw bless you I'd say you definitely deserve a nice long holiday. I know what you mean about having wages back, I can't wait to have money again.

    BJNL - I've no idea where Miss Moo went, quite a few people vanish off the forum to be honest.
    Ooh hope you have a fabulous hen weekend next week ?
    How are you getting on with your confetti bags?

    So ladies I had a bit of a nightmare last night. Received a call from the venue that's doing our wedding breakfast to say that they've changed management teams and that they had NO details about my booking!!
    They confirmed that they'd honour whatever information I'd been given previously but that I needed to tell them everything again.
    So this morning I had to type up absolutely everything that had been agreed, down to what colour tablecloths would be used. I even had to send them the menu that had been decided, and the cost per head.
    My question to you all is ... is it really naughty that I knocked £2 off per head??
    I was so upset that they'd put me through this extra stress I just wanted to see if I could get away with it ?

    Have also paid the final balance for the evening venue and emailed the DJ confirming our song choices etc, so all in all a busy day!

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    Beginner October 2015
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    LMP... what a mare! No, I don't blame you at all knocking some money off per head!

    Have they acknowledged everything yet?

    xx

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Morning/ Afternoon....

    I actually don’t know where i am at the moment.

    BJNL – Don’t worry lovely, didn’t think it was, i was skim reading anyway which is where i probably missed it.

    LMP – Oh god thats so stupid, how could they not have anything? I dont blame you for knocking off £2 per head, i mean seriously it serves them right, I hope you have asked for many an extra bottle of wine on the tables because of the stress. Normally not one to say stuff like that but on something as important as the wedding breakfast then maybe you should!

    Be brave lovely it will calm down and this will be forgotten next Saturday! (AGH!!).

    So i really dont know where i am at the moment, i’m in meetings running around like a blue arsed moneky! Seriously!

    Quick vent away from weddings, seriously if you have an interview lined up why don’t you just say if you don’t want to take it instead of leaving people and why do agencies place people up for more than one role at a time?! UGH! I’m never going to get my Christmas temps in if it carries on this way.

    OH left for Amsterdam this morning. He’s sending me snapchats and makes me want to be there, I used to live in Amsterdam so its making me miss the place more than him hahaha!

    I paid my venue yesterday and sent off the music this morning! So thats another thing thats ticked off.

    Bluegh!!

    I’m going to eat pizza later. Which isn’t good as i have a dress fitting tomorrow!

    I’m just going to hide under my desk and cry! Haha!

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    Hi Guys,

    I found a lady way back for my save the dates and day invites ( I was going to make my own evening invites) then I thought sod it, I'll get her to do my evening invites as well...

    I was going to make my own table plan... I'd seen an idea on here about using a collage photo frame to house your table plan so was going to create my own using that, but then when I started making it, it looked a bit rubbish, so I contacted her again and asked if she could make my table plan, bespoke to match everything else I'd had and to go into my photo frame, and she said she could. And bless her, she emailed me today saying she's bought a frame herself as she was worried about the fit, and sent me a pic to show me what it looks like... and I absolutely love it!

    It looks wicked. And I'm so pleased I went back to her because I love things to match and now everything matches right down to the table numbers as I got her to do me them too Smiley smile

    little flash for you guys:


    Am going to put pics of me and OH into the empty slots.

    I know guests won't remember the little details, but we will Smiley smile

    xx

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Oh Rebecca, that is beautiful and thats so lovely of her to get the frame for you.

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Afternoon Everyone,

    Happy Friday! We are having a macmillian coffee morning today and I have eaten 6 cakes!!! This is not the way to spend the Friday 1 week before i get married!!!!!

    LittleMissPanda - hun, I am sorry to hear what the venue have done to you. You are absolutely right in knocking the £2 off as Lui said I would be asking for extra bottles of wine of the table and I would also see what else they can give you as well as compensation. It is absolutely disgusting that 1 week before your wedding this happens and they have no details about your booking. I hope you are ok hun, I can only imagine how upset and angry you must be feeling right now. Have they come back to you yet?

    Lui - Completely un wedding related; do you work in recruitment?! I do and its a nightmare as you have written!!! How long is OH in Amsterdam for? How long did you live there for? I have never lived abroad, i imagine it was a completely different way of life! I hope your dress fitting tomorrow hoes well hun! what is your dress like?

    rebeccafcr - Your table plan is gorgeous hun!!! You must be so excited!! What's next on your list to complete? Can't believe your wedding is 2 weeks tomorrow!!! When do you finish work?! are you off for long after the wedding?

    I have quite an exciting weekend ahead, I am picking my dress up tomorrow and having a patch test for my false eyelashes! (never had them before) Then we are sitting down and going through everything and making sure that by Sunday night, absolutely everything is done and in boxes and ready to go for the wedding! We are quite busy during all of the evenings next week and with being at work until the Wednesday I need to make sure its all done or else I'll panic like crazy! Incidentally my skin is absolutely perfect at the moment, I tend to get a few spots on my chin area and it can be difficult to shift them sometimes, so I am just praying that my skin plays nicely and stays clear for the wedding next Saturday! Although I am sure it wont!

    Love and hugs to all, xxxxxxx

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Afternoon Sparklybear,

    I work in HR and Customer services (what a mix) I’m currently running a recruitment campaign and the people do not turn up or go for other roles. The agency we are using, i think are putting people up for more than one role at the same time, so people are taking other jobs while we are trying to interview them. It’s really annoying as it feels like we are not going to fill these roles and with Christmas being peak season we need them.

    Is it this bad for you as well?

    He’s in Amsterdam until Sunday night. I lived there for ½ a year when i was in UNI, i taught over there in some Dutch schools.

    Its is so much better and laid back, but maybe thats just Amsterdam haha! My dress i’m not sure if its A-line or a princess dress but I’ll flash it again for you, mainly because i love it. However the model does not do it justice.

    The model is wearing it with a hoop at the bottom, I wont be so it'll fall more naturally for me.

    Sounds like you have an awesome weekend coming up!! Hope everything goes well for you! Can’t believe that its almost one week away, thats flipping scary!! Remember as LMP said, number your boxes!!

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Hey Lui,

    I get where your coming from with the agency thing! I really don't like the way they recruit. I used to work in one about 10 years and just hated their lack of morals! Since then I have worked as an inhouse recruiter and most of the time i love it! I currently work for a legal company recruiting conveyancers and solicitors! Its rather challenging all the time! But i get such a buzz from it! The recruitment team I work in is amazing, so it makes it all that bit nicer!

    Your dress is very gorgeous! The model looks miserable! You'd have thought she'd be smiling and happy wearing a dress like that!!! I love the detailing on the top if it, its just so intricate and beautiful!are you having the belt that the money is wearing?

    Have you got any wedding things to do this weekend?! I will definitely remember to number the boxes, i think it will help me (and OH) so much when it comes to taking them to the venue!!

    I am just waiting for our vicar to come back to me about something; i emailed him two weeks ago and he still hasn't come back to me! I've chased him twice!!! Getting a little nervous, but we'll see him this Sunday in church so i can corner him and ask him why he hasn't replied!

    xx

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Hi lovely,

    Im starting to understand their lack of morals! I have telephone interviewed 4/5 people and booked them in for normal interviews literally a day or so after the interview and by the day they have either got a job or just don't show up. If I was a consultant I would put them up for one job at a time. It does feel like they just want the money.

    The belt is attached so it is going to come with it and it's nice it just brings something to it with all the lace and tulle.

    This weekend I'm currently in OH home town (he's from the south) seeing some of our best friends and having a mini hen as some couldn't come due to giving birth to my adorable niece. So I'm currently on the sofa this morning just having a cuddle with their cat! Haha. How is your weekend going? Did you get hold of the vicar?

    Did everything get in to the boxes ok? I can't believe it's already time for you and LMP to get married!!

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    Morning guys,

    I picked my dress up yesterday. It's now hanging on my old wardrobe at my mums!

    Can't remember if I told you the issues that the sample really pulled me in and gave me a figure and mine didn't when it came. And the shop was all like "it will be able to be altered to look like that"

    the seamstress said it couldn't so I was upset thinking I'd look shapeless. Well, she has taken the dress in 7 inches. I have a little bit of shape now but nothing like the sample. Also, turns out the length is wrong! With my heels on the dress is too short! So I will have to wear flats. Whenever i tried it on in the shop I only ever had it on for a few mins so never really got to properly look at myself. Bit annoyed really be nevermind at least I have it now.

    sparklybear your weekend sounds fun!

    i break up the Wednesday afternoon before the wedding and don't go back until Mon 27th Oct so that's nice. The Wednesday in sorting favours and sweet buffet, Thursday honeymoon packing and nails and Friday taking everything the the hotel and doing last bits like confetti cones etc.

    not much left to do!

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    Lui, your dress is stunning by the way beauts!

    hope you enjoy your mini hen!

    i forgot to flash you guys my hair trial, I know how much we all like a flash!

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    Sorry if the pics are huge and sideways... My phone makes them weird!

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    Hi all,

    I feel like I'm going crazy at the moment what with having to pack and get ready to move next weekend and with the wedding getting ever closer (on top of all the normal work stuff)!

    It's amazing to see that some of you literally have days left until you marry your best friend!!! So excited for you all and I can't wait to see the flashes! I still have 4.5 weeks left, which will fly by, but only a few payments left, a meeting with my TOG on Tuesday and lots of little jobs to get sorted (kinda freaking out with everything else taking over and no time to sort these little things out!).

    Rebeccafr - I love the seating plan! It's beautiful and seems to suit your theme excellently! Your hair looks gorgeous too Smiley laugh

    LMP - I'm with you on the Indian summer front - I hope it lasts until the end of October!

    Hallowedding - I would love to see the dress!

    Stephied - any news on your coordinator?

    BNLJ - I hope you got your organza boxes sorted Smiley smile

    Lui - I love the dress and I can see what you mean by your description of the pic!

    SparklyBear - did you manage to sort things out with your vicar?

    Misslynx - Sorry to hear about the job situation - that's awful! A friend of mine has done our caricatures - 'Art By Mengistu' is his business name and he is amazing! I am a classically trained flautist but perform a lot in shows, orchestras, and pop/folk rock gigs too on the flute and other instruments. My OH really likes music too so the decision on the table names was easy...here is a flash of one of the table names:

    Ours also include Elgar, Chopin, Verdi, Wagner, Debussy and Schubert.


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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Good Morning Ladies,

    How are we all?! Can't believe LittleMissPanda and I get married in 5 days! Wedding week is finally upon us! I had terrible trouble sleeping last night; I was just so excited! This morning I am shattered but I think the adrenaline will just keep me going all week!

    How was everyone's weekends? We have pretty much done everything now. We just need to put some photos onto a usb stick and I need to pick the suits up once I've had the call from the suit place. Should be the Wednesday that they call! Thankfully my skin is still playing ball and looks clear and from what I can gather there was another report in the news about this Indian summer continuing. I really hope my skin and the weather stays as they both are for the Saturday!

    LittleMissPanda - how are you my lovely? How's it all going with the venue? I was thinking about you over the weekend hoping that it has all worked ok for you. Wish I could help in some way! Sending you lots of hugs.

    Lui - Yes we spoke to the vicar yesterday morning, he still needs to confirm something to me but is waiting on an answer from someone else. So I feel much happier! All boxes for the wedding are done, but not numbered as it might confuse things, however they are all grouped together and I have written a clear list of what needs to go where on the Saturday morning! OH will be taking these to the venue at about 8:30! How was your weekend down south?! It's beautiful down there isn't it! Which part did you go to?! OH and have a a very soft spot for Dorset! It will definitely be where we buy our next house!

    Rebeccafcr - I have probably already asked you this, but have a memory like a sieve lately! Where are you going on your honeymoon?! I picked my dress on up Saturday and it is now hanging on the curtain rail in my old room! Sorry to hear the length on yours isn't what you hoping, but on the plus side at least your feet won't hurt from having to wear heels all day! Have you got many preparation plans left?

    Cat D - Your table names and the drawings are awesome!!! What's next on your list to get completed? Good luck with your house move!! When do you complete on the move?!

    Love and hugs to all, xxxxxx

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Good morning everyone! I have been rubbish as usual but how exciting that it's nearly October!!! Sparkly bear and LMP I think I'd be bouncing off the walls with only 5 days to go. LMP I managed to get a look at your dress, the seamstress did an awesome job and it is just gorgeous. Also I don't blame you for knocking £2 per head off, I would like to think I would have done that but I'm not brave enough and would probably give myself away. Again I haven't kept up with the thread, I keep meaning to dedicate some time to it and I will soon.

    I decided I'm just going to flash my dress on here, if my colleague sees it I'm sure I'll live

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    Hallowedding... wow your dress! So different! It's beautiful! x

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    Thanks Cat D... It does match... I love to match! lol

    Sparklybear - We are off on a cruise from Southampton the day after the wedding, going to Spain, Portugal and Canaries Smiley smile

    Jobs wise.... finish centrepieces, put the table plan together when she sends me the bits from the picture above, fill the sweet jars and favour boxes.... and just organise what is going where into boxes etc!

    Yes, it's probably a blessing in disguise wearing flats over heels!

    How's your to do list looking?x

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  • Sparkly Bear
    Beginner October 2015
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    Rebeccafcr - Our list is almost done; although I've just had a guest drop out this morning so now need to change their place and change the table plan (if we can) I'll probably have to leave the seating plan as is, because it has been printed and there's nothing I can do about it! Only things we have left is to put some pictures on a usb stick and pick the suits up (Thursday)! Your cruise sounds lovely! I have never been on one before!! Have you?! How long are you spending in each destination?! I am also far too excited to work! I am only here for three days this week so am very excited, but just want the working days to hurry!!! What are you having for your centre pieces and favours?!

    Hallowedding - Your dress is beautiful - I haven't seen one like that before! Whats next on your list to complete?!

    Love and hugs to all, xxxxxx

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Hey ladies,

    Just checking in. I have been lurking mostly, not saying much. The rest of you are very chatty indeed.

    I have started to track the weather and it is showing to be sunny for the next 2 weeks and rainy/cloudy on the 10th October! I have invested in 4 white umbrellas off eBay.

    My to do list is shrinking but I worry that I might forget to do something important.

    tomorrow drop off sample vase to florist for a test run of the centrepieces. Don't forget to take the feathers for the buttons.

    Bake a cake for my send off party on 3rd October.

    pick up honeymoon tickets from Thomson at Bluewater

    get my hair extensions done on Monday 5th oct.

    print off the last few place names using work printer! (A few guests have dropped out and they have been replaced)

    make final changes to table plan due to the above changes

    drop off favours, table plan, place names, mirror plates and tea lights at venue in the next few days once the above changes have been made.

    Call dress lady to sort out final bill and final fitting.

    Make sure the 12 Family members from abroad have their airport transfers sorted.

    Speak to cake lady(parents neighbour) to ensure all is well with her and that she is all set for the day.

    Call makeup artist to confirm timings

    That at is all I can remember off the top of my head. I am sure I have forgotten something.

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Afternoon ladies,

    Sorry today has been hectic and my phone isn’t updating email wise to know if you lovely ladies have posted or not.

    Rebeccafcr – Thanks lovely! I had a lovely little mini hen. Sorry to hear about your dress and being too short, but if you were thinking of going into flats its perfect, also if you have any shoes that are showey, they could be your way of showing off your shoes. Great to hear that you had to take in your dress by 7 inches! Thats great news!

    Love the hair style, very very pretty!

    Cat D- Love the table names, the drawing is awesome. Cant wait to see them in real flash life.

    Sparklybear – So close now lovely! So excited for you both! Glad that you got things sorted with the Vicar. My weekend down south was so nice, I went to Bracknell so Berkshire as I was seeing our close friends (OH,’s BM) girlfriend and their baby and just hanging out. Was so lovely to see her and her baby. Then rushed home to finish house work and then went out for my brothers and his girlfriends birthday. (they are 1.5 weeks apart).

    Hallowedding – your dress is stunning, never seen one like that before!

    HappyPolly – Your list is getting so much smaller, are you excited for it all?

    So this weekend, I confirmed my music with the venue, and then also paid off the venue too. I had my final dress fitting and it fit perfectly, so I really can’t put on any weigh or lose any, so I need to get myself into gear and eat carefully and go for a run more frequently. But my dress was stunning and I felt so beautiful in it. Was amazing.

    I then went down south to see my friends that was so good, we chin wagged, went out for lunch, and dinner and I was treated so much. So good. Drove home and went out for dinner with my family. Really have a short list of things to do now.

    Have to finish the following:

    Card box sign

    Centrepieces (still waiting for 3 to be painted)

    Buy batteries for lights.

    Pick up dress

    Keep wearing in shoes

    Thats it i think, or I have missed a hell of a lot! Haha! We shall see.

    Side note, the London Marathon Ballot comes out in likes a week times, and I’m really hoping that I make it in, if not, I’m starting to eye up different ones in this area.

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Hi Sparklybear,

    That sounds good that your list is almost done Smiley smile

    We've done a few cruises. We like it, it's relaxing, fun, pampering!

    We're away for 13 nights, and I think we have 3 days at sea during that time. The time in port varies from like 8-4 to 9-7

    Out centerpieces are crystal trees, so just need to set the trees up and add the crystal garland and butterflies.

    Favour boxes just need filling with pink M&M's and then a pink ribbon putting round the box.

    I break up a week on Wednesday and I already don't want to do any more work!

    xx

    #weatherwatch 17 degrees and mostly cloudy for me at the mo!

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Afternoon chickens ? just been updating the good luck threads and wow I'm getting so excited now!

    Sparkly bear - drink tons of water, always does wonders for my skin! I'm sure as long as you don't have any mad binges you'll be fine! Can't believe it's your wedding this weekend, you must be super excited! I'm having eyelashes too but I'll have mine on the day

    Cat D - it'll be your time before you know it lovely! And I LOVE your table names! How original Smiley smile

    Lui - I'm having the extensions fitted next Weds but they are removable ones, couldn't be bothered with the maintenance of permanent ones! I will do a flash though Smiley smile Sorry to hear your work is really stressful at the moment too hun, it's a nightmare in our place too, trying to wind down my caseload but boss keeps dumping things on my desk! And excellent news about your dress fitting ? that's got to be a weight off your mind too.

    LMP - four and bit days to go for you too! What a Nightmare re your venue! so close to the date I'd have knocked more than £2 per head off, and I'd be asking for freebies too! Sorry you're having to re-do everything at this late stage, must be such a pain in the ass. Almost here...

    Rebeccafcr - your table plan looks beautiful Smiley smile

    Hallowedding - love your dress, very unusual!

    Happy Polly - oh no, I've been checking the weather too, I've not noticed any rain forecast yet though! I don't mind a bit of rain, or cloud, I just can't be doing with wind, blowing my dress, my hair, making my eyes water etc! As long as there's no wind I don't care what the weather does ha ha! We can say we're getting married next week too, eeep!

    Well, OH and I did a bit of honeymoon clothes shopping at the weekend and had a little date afternoon seeing as it was our last weekend together as singletons (it's his stag this weekend). Had a lovely little day shopping, went the cinema, then topped off with some take out and a few drinks!

    Had some more drop outs over the weekend so that's us spending ANOTHER evening rejigging the table plan! Seriously, that's got to be it now for the drop outs ha ha?? Bit of bad news was OH's younger brother, who is 15 and a boxer. He's just made it to the final of the North West Championships for his age/weight but it's on the wedding day! OH is gutted but he understands it's important to him and he wants to go. Spoke to the caterer this morning and they said they'd keep his wedding breakfast in a hot cupboard in case he's late to the meal!

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Hi all,

    Will do a proper update later this week but hope you are all ok! 3 days to October - eek! Also noticed Lui has put on 10th October good luck threads which has caused me to get butterflies! :-)

    LMP - Please read! I didn't get your email.

    Please mail me at diane_bonser at yahoo dot co dot uk and put WEDDING as the title. I'll search for this and will send you that sixpence! :-)

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Hallow that is a beautiful dress. I love the the way the sparkly flower design snakes its way down the dress.

    I will flash my dress when I have had the final fitting which I hope will be Tuesday next week. I will take my bridesmaid with me.

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  • Lui
    Beginner October 2015
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    Stephied – Thanks lovely! I would like some but I know i wouldn’t put them incorrectly and the ones they sew in really give me a migraine so i can’t have them anymore.

    Thanks lovely. I’m just trying to round things off in this month but it’s getting hard and stressful but I’m just working that this time next month I will be off for a month! People just don’t understand how stressful work and weddings are! Hopefully your work winds down too soon lovely.

    Can’t believe more people have dropped out. This is crazy. Can us October ladies come instead? Shame OH brother can’t be there all day, but hopefully he wins his match and can then come and celebrate your day with you too. Hopefully it’s a great day for everyone.

    Happy Polly – EEP can’t wait to see the dress.

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  • LittleMissPanda
    Beginner October 2015
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    My gosh ladies will you all slow down?? How's a girl supposed to catch up around here ?

    I honestly cannot believe that I get married in 5 days time ? I don't know if I'm so excited I might vomit, or so nervous I might vomit ... either way there's a good chance I won't be eating for the next week!!

    So I think I'm actually all done! I've written out the name place cards and put the final few bits in boxes and now I just have to wait and go to (endless) beauty appointments...

    Thank you all for your comments regarding my wedding breakfast venue, I'm happy to report it's all sorted now. My mum has paid the final balance today and I've had email confirmation that everything which was previously agreed still stands.
    Plus I got away with knocking £2 per head, and £1 off each welcome drink!

    Cat D - How are you feeling now, hope everything's ok.
    So far so good on the weather front...

    hallowedding - Your dress is absolutely gorgeous, the bead work is so pretty!

    Happy Polly - I'm sure the weather will be lovely for all of us, we deserve it ?
    Your to do list doesn't sound too bad, I'm sure you'll get through it in no time.

    Lui - Did Mr Lui have fun in Amsterdam?
    I forgot how gorgeous your dress is, such a grumpy model though!
    How was your mini hen do?
    Really pleased you feel beautiful in your dress, I can't wait to see some flashes of your big day ?
    Fingers crossed for the London Marathon for you!

    misslynx - I've re-emailed you now, thanks again ?

    Rebeccafcr - I love your table plan, it looks amazing! You say guests won't remember the little details but I bet you some of them will notice how everything matches and comment on how nice it is ?
    Sorry to hear you've had problems with your dress hun, I bet it still looks gorgeous. It might be wise to wear flats, I know I'm switching into flats as soon as I can!
    Your hair trial looks amazing, are you happy with it?
    Your honeymoon sounds lush, little bit jealous!

    Sparkly Bear - Did you pick up your dress ok and get everything in boxes ready to go? Also did you manage to corner your vicar? (There's a weird sentence haha)
    Hope your skin is still behaving itself, I had one lone spot last week but I think it's gone now...
    I'm so excited/nervous I may explode! I couldn't sleep either last night, think I may have to start Piriton to knock myself out haha!

    Stephied - I think we're all getting excited now, it's suddenly here!
    Your date afternoon sounds lovely, what a nice idea ?
    Sorry to hear about your OH's brother, that's a seriously good achievement though! Hopefully he'll make it to the meal on time.

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    Beginner October 2015
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    LMP.... a matter of days away! So exciting!

    Glad your practically all sorted!x

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    Beginner October 2015
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    Thanks for the compliments on my dress, it was made in India, I wanted an English style dress with loads of Indian style bling and I think they managed it. The back is the same, lots of sparkle. That pic was taken before the sleeves were taken in as they were way too big.

    Lui i forgot to say i checked your dress out too, so beautiful with all the romantic lace detail

    rebeccacfr the hair trial looks lovely

    I still have lots to do, placecards, table plan, menus, i need to buy my jewellery and find a lady who does mendhi (henna) as we are having a traditional mendhi party two days before the wedding

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