Hi all
Now my OH asked his best friend to be best man when we first got engaged a year ago....he was best man for him and was honoured to do it for him...when we asked him to be best man he was very hesitant and agreed on the proviso that he didnt have to do a speech - he had previously been a best man and the nerves ruined his whole day apparantely....so my OH said that would be ok..purely because he really wanted him to do it for him....
Sooo since then my MOH said that she would do the speech instead but last week admitted that she could talk about me but needed to speak to the best man to get some ideas of what to say about my OH...We all then talked about it and decided that OH should speak to his best man and see how he felt about standing up with my MOH and at least doing the toast....
So today it has all blown up as my Oh has mentioned to him this idea and he flipped and said he wouldnt do it...."we have been through all this..blah blah blah" so it seems he is being best man as he feels that he has too rather than taking it as the honour it is and wanting to do it for my OH.
My Oh has kinda put it out there to unask him...and he didnt object to this..to be honest i think he would be relieved....Ohs brother is one of the ushers....so we could swap them....
What do you all think?
Im upset for my OH...I can tell he is a little bit hurt...even though he is being all manly about it!
