Opposite heigh couples and pictures!

I'm gonna be honest and say you're worrying about nothing (although 'get a grip' might be a bit strong). It will be blatantly obvious to anyone who knows you that you have a great height difference, and everyone at the wedding will be able to see it when you're standing at the altar, so why are you so worried about the photos? (Although don't forget, the bigger the hair, the closer to God, so I'd still do that.)

Embrace it - make it something fun! Quick google threw these up!

I had the exact same worry before our day, Im 4' 11" and OH is 6' 1". I didnt have massive heels in the end as wanted to be comfortable. I love our pics and dont think we look odd at all so I would say you dont need to worry

Heres some of our pics to give you an idea:

and one of our first dance which I was also worried about:

If you are worried I would recommend having an engagement shoot to give ideas of positioning and what works for you both x

Absolutely don't worry! Embrace the distance - I know what it feels like, I'm 6' 5" - you will look how you look together and I am sure that is fantastic. Your photographer will have a few tricks up his/her sleeve to minimise the effect as well.

Forget about it and have fun!

Dont worry - just be you.

Heres one that comes to mind.

Really you shouldn't worry about it, your photographer will know what to do.?

Lovely bottom photo Bill.?

I don't have any photos to share as we're not married yet, but I don't think you need to worry. All the pics shared so far look great and if it's something you feel really self conscious about let your tog know and im sure they'll have heps of creativevways to disguise the difference.

Theres always a difference between OH and me and there's nothing we can do to disguise it, he's 6ft4 and due to a foot injury has to wear orthopaedic shoes that make him closer to 6ft6, while I am 5ft 4 and cant wear heels due to a knee injury. I have never once thought about whether the difference stands out in photos.

Cheers Bruce

Embrace it! I am taller than OH and it bugs me so much. I LOVE my heels but feel huge so I will wear flats on the day. I'd love to be dainty and tiny.

Rachd03 your pics are fab and all of your comments have made me feel much better. Thank you everyone. I like the comment about shorter brides being bubbly and I already know I want some fun shots so maybe I'm bubbly but didn't know.

right, I'm going to embrace the difference and use it to get some fun different shots. Defo gonna have a engagement/pre wedding shoot, that's a really good idea.

cheers everyone, feeling much happier now.

Don't stress your pictures will be fine :] I'm 4'7 and my OH is 6'1 and he's requested that we do a funny picture of me stood on yellow pages! :] haha!

I'm another shortie here! Interesting how many of us have ended up with taller guys...

Thanks Sal

I definitely recommend the engagement shoot, plus its an excuse to have more lovely pics of you and your OH

That's a Bloomin brilliant idea! Really nice to know there are more couples with such a height difference, all the same height lying down though eh haha

right, I'm going to contact my photographer this weekend and arrange a date for a shoot.

Ha, my guy is 6'7''... I'm not small (5'7'') but I expect I'll have neck ache by end of photos! I'm looking forward to seeing the height difference in the photos, it's part of us as a couple!!

A work colleague said this to me when I talked about getting HUGE heels, she said why change what you are just for some pictures.

I'm 5' 1 1/2" and H is 6'3"

Trump ?

Seriously, you'll be fine. Have some fun 'lifting up' photos and ones where he is sitting, you are standing. And one of all the men holding you while you lie on their arms, a la Marilyn!

Ooooh good ideas! Thanks. Love the use of the word trump haha. Just seen your pics, they are fab.

These pics are fab too. I'm feeling so much better about this now.