I work in public sector (Uni). One of my colleagues (same job, different dept), is mid 50's and male. He's bee in in the job for about 8 years, i've been in this role for almost 1. He is a very hard worker, and does about twice as much as he has to. He works about 10 hour days most days, and does a lot above and beyond his role, even doing some of the work of academics which we are only meant to coordinate, but not do ourselves.
I am quite a hard worker, efficient and professional, and do everything that needs to get done well and on time. But in this job we don't get paid overtime or time in lieu (only an unofficial flexitime which is quite restricted). In a previous role at the same uni I did work overtime but for no benefit, so I decided to stop doing it. In this sort of organisation, the jobs aren't that demanding to require 10-11 hour days. I know this may make me sound lazy, but I feel people compare me to him, and the million extra things he does, especially the academics who we both work with. they expect me to do work for them, just like my colleague does, which I am not prepared (or qualified!) to do. In some ways I feel it makes me look bad! I do my job and I do it well, but I do my hours because my life outside of work is more important to me than staying at work more than I have to (I do during busy periods or deadlines etc). Im not the type of person that only does what is on their job description either, because I hate the attitude of inflexible people who won't give a little to help others, but this guy is too much!!
This is just a rant really, but I do feel people compare us, feel bad for not doing as much as he does, but I don't think im doing anything wrong, does that make sense?