Page Boy but No Flower Girl

As you say, it's your day so do what you feel like doing... I'm hoping to have OH's nieces and nephews in my bridal party, two of which are going to be 3 or under. Now you've got me worrying a bit, but I think it would be nice to have them involved I'm sure you can work out a way to make it work, maybe speak to the parents and see if they think it'll be a problem?

I say have them all or none at all - that's what I would do to solve any family arguments x

It's definitely up to you.

We've got things the opposite way to you in that we're not having a page boy.

The only advice I can give is do not expect a child under 3 to fulfil any real duty! I'm having a flower girl who will not quite be 3 on the day. I'll give her a flower to hold but if she doesn't want to then she doesn't want to. If she does do what we want on the day, we'll be thrilled of course!

Hope this helps!

My flower girl didn't throw petals I gave her a bouquet for ease and had her walk down with her brother and she isn't 3 until May

We weren't going to have any flower girls, pageboys or bridesmaids. Our original plan was to buy all four nieces and the nephew (the kids under 10) their outfits so they felt part of things. Now my sister isn't coming one niece and the nephew won't be there either.

The other three nieces are five year old twins and a seven year old - we're still buying them the matching outfits but still no 'official' flower girl thing - they'll look really cute though.

If I were you I'd have them both, just don't expect them to do anything other than look adorable.

I've seen page boys and flowers girls who are just weeks old- I don't think there's a too young, so long as you're not expecting them to actually do anything if they don't want to (or aren't able to). A lot of the time it's just a title and quite often the little ones will be too shy to walk down the aisle for example.

Personally, I think i'd go with both or neither- not due to it looking odd, but due to potential upset if one is picked for a role without the other.

I've never really seen the point in pageboys or flower girls if I'm honest, but I do think if you have one sibling you need to have the other, in some capacity.

Oh! If youve still got 18 months to go then leave it.for a while, I'm guessing they'll all be invited anyway and you can't buy clothes for them for ages yet anyway, so you don't need to make a decision for at least a year I reckon