If anyone can provide some advice, I would greatly appreciate…
So my dad and step mum kindly offered to pay towards mine and my fiancé’s wedding. Initially as much as £10,000 which we greatly appreciated. However, although we weren’t told when this was offered but we expected and we were ok with to an extent, this seemed to come with some compromise from us.
My dad wanted me to, his only daughter, get married where I’m from. He is a traditionalist and I understood this. I don’t like any venues back there and me and my fiancé found the perfect venue where we live, an hour and a half away from my dad.
He didn’t like this and initially didn’t want to know about this place. After a lot of tension, he came round to the idea…ish! It now feel like he is trying to find issues with the venue. My step mum has not been very helpful to me at all and I have got into arguments with them about this. Last night my dad said that he is a very important part of this day, as important as my fiancé.
I am so stuck with what to do and since I got engaged last year, I have not enjoyed any of the experience so far as I feel like they are being difficult.
Me and fiancé are now talking about declining the kind offer and paying for it ourselves to prevent any further relationship fall out.
Please, anyone, can you give me your advice?
Thank you.
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