Parents may not attend wedding

It is such a tough situation, and it is a shame no one is stepping up to help orgainse their transport, as I personally don't feel this should be on you to organise, you have enough on your plate. Are there other siblings you could maybe have a family discussion to ask them to support with transport for your parents? Is there a neighbour or friend who is not attending that could maybe help? The other issue as you say, is should your mother be attending, given her health concerns. Would she struggle and feel upset if she had an episode, so do you want to try and avoid that stress for her? If you are worried about her even attending would there be someone who could sit with them and you could live stream the ceremony to a device, they could help set up for them? you can do it free on Facebook or zoom if you get a free account as you can have 40 mins for free, you just need to have someone start the meeting on the day at the ceremony and shoot it, they can then join the call if you send the link to an email but appreciate would maybe be too technical if they don't have someone with them to help. There are apps, but not sure if there is a cost. this for me, as sad as itis, would be the best option for your mum's health and wellbeing as I fear that it would be too much for her to attend. I am sorry there is no definite answer, I hope you are able to work out something out

I was also wondering if streaming would be an option. I'm sure you could find a neighbour, friend or even a charity volunteer who could help them access this.

With all the flu, Covid and other respiratory conditions about, it might be safer for your dad to view remotely, and your mum might find it confusing or upsetting to be there in person. And if she gets distressed, that is going to be distressing for you.

Would you be able to talk to your dad about it? You might find that he would be happy to watch the wedding remotely - you could always ask whoever is conducting the ceremony to acknowledge your parents (we got married immediately after lockdown lifted, and the minister who married us made a point of greeting our loved ones who were watching remotely and welcoming them to the wedding). You might find he isn't that fussed about being there - my mother actually asked us not to postpone if anything prevented her being there, because she said she just wanted to know we were married and being there wasn't as important for her as knowing that it had happened.