Hi all,
4 months until our big day in July, things are starting to feel so real and so stressful!
We decided to invite cousins to our wedding and only invite their other halves if they are married/engaged, my husband to be has 12 cousins! We made this clear to our aunties and uncles/cousins when inviting them.
On both sides of our family, we've now had cousins reach out to us asking if they can invite their other half because their sibling can't make it etc.
We're finding this difficult because where people can't make it, their seats aren't empty. There are people we would like to invite to the day but haven't been able to because of numbers. Also, I don't think it's fair to have one rule for one cousin and not for the other.
I'm also starting to feel a bit frustrated that people are asking if they can invite other people when we set the boundaries to start with. It would be lovely to invite our cousins other halves but we've also never met any of them before.
Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable? I've been to my cousin's wedding when my sibling has been invited but couldn't make it and I would have never dared ask if my other half could come!
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