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Stupidgirl45
Beginner July 2009

Pics of me in my dress and aunty update (bit sens) UPDATED (sens)

Stupidgirl45, 4 April, 2009 at 23:42 Posted on Planning 0 38

☹️http://www.photobox.co.uk/my/photo?photo_id=2029944509&album_id=74434857

Got all done up as took pics to see my great aunt. Sadly she's too *out of it* to see them - but I think she knew I was there. Her condition had rapidly deteriorated overnight.

I don't think it's going to be much longer and its horrible when you're in effect, almost waiting for someone to die so they're out of pain....

Feeling a bit ☹️

Cried all the way home on the tube. luckily I was going to brixton + there's so many loonies there i didn't look out of place.

SG

Updated - just to say my aunt died this evening in hospital. So may not be hitching much for the next few days - but thanks for all your lovely words, it means a lot

x

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Latest activity by Debi*M, 6 April, 2009 at 22:27
  • Teri_M
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    I don't know the story of your Great Aunt's illness, I'm sure she knew you were there tho, and could sense your happiness. You look gorgeous, and I know she would be very proud of you. Hugs

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  • diamondsragirlsbestfriend!
    Beginner May 2008
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    Hi SG45

    Sorry to hear about your great aunt. I won't pretend to know how you are feeling as it is so different for everyone but have a big ?.

    Even though she didn't get to see your photos (which by the way you look gorgeous in) as you say at least she knew you were there.

    Thinking of you.

    Cx

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  • Weather Girl
    Beginner October 2009
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    I don't really think there's much I can say other than I can completely understand how you're feeling. Some of you may have read about my dad but if not, he was diagnosed with termincal cancer last April. They gave him a course of chemo to give him a little longer but now it's like an awful waiting game - he can hardly eat and is wasting away in front of our eyes and is uncomfortable all the time, despite the painkillers they've given him.

    When I went wedding dress shopping in January he did actually come with me and mum as he wasn't so bad then. I really wanted him to see me in my dress because to be honest I really don't think he'll be here for the wedding ☹️.

    I'm sending you a virtual hug ? to say I'm thinking of you.

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  • ooh la la
    Beginner August 2013
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    I'm sorry about your Aunt, as you were so sweet to want to show her the photos. It's awful to see a relative like that. My Nain passed away two months ago, and when I saw her in the hospital whilst she was still with us, I was looking at a completely different person. But this thread is about you, so I'm sending a big bear squeezy hug ?

    SG, your dress looks fab on you, it's such a clean and elegant design, very sophisticated glam!

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  • nicky167
    Beginner September 2009
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    Im so sorry to hear about your aunt SG. Sending you a big ?.

    You look bloomin' gorgeous in your dress. It's giving you a lovely figure!!

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  • debs1701
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    SG Im sorry that your aunt didn't get to your pics, she would of known you were there ?, you look fantastic in your dress.

    December1984, I'm sorry to hear about your dad ?

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  • AliLindsey
    Beginner November 2009
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    Oh Becky, you look lovely. I'm sure your aunt knew you were there.

    Don't know what else to say, but I'm thinking of you. And sorry to hear about your Dad, Dec1984.

    Ali xxx

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    Beautiful SG!

    Thinking of you?

    Sarah xx

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  • Lynseys Designs
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    I know exactly how you feel as I took pictures of me in my dress to show my aunt but she wasn't able to open her eyes enough to see them and sadly passed away a few days later.

    She'll see you on the day though I'm sure of that because she will be around in her own way. ?

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  • teeheeyoucrazyguys!
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    Sorry to hear your great aunt is ill Smiley sad

    i cant open the link to your pics at the mo (stroppy pc) but will be sure to as soon as everything returns to normal at this end.

    xx

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  • Bridget Gump
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    Sorry to hear about your aunt SG. I have some experience of that waiting from when my Grandad passed away earlier this year. I'm sure she's not in as much pain as you are thinking.

    You look great in your dress, and what a waist! I love your hair too.

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  • Stupidgirl45
    Beginner July 2009
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    Thanks for all your lovely comments

    December - sorry to hear about your dad - that's so hard for you

    Sarah - kay thanks for the comment on my hair, all I did was wash it LOL - that not how it will be on the day - its going to be wavy not curly

    x

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  • bluewater
    Beginner August 2009
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    Gorge dress, fab figure, v. jealous!!!

    and sending you hugs as always xxx

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  • bec84
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    Becky, you look lovely.

    So Sorry to hear about your aunt...have a hug xx

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  • Saracroft251
    Beginner August 2010
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    SG - stay strong - you are in our thoughts x x x

    P.S. you look fab in dress, your hair looks great!

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  • Stupidgirl45
    Beginner July 2009
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    Thanks for all your lovely messages, haven't heard anything today but various relatives have been travelling to see her.

    Re: my dress - I have a couple more pics on MIL's camera which are much better than these that I hope to post next weekend.

    Okay debate time. Should I have my hair curly or gentle movie star waves?

    x

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  • Saracroft251
    Beginner August 2010
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    Wear it as it is in the photos you posted - it looks v natural x

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  • bluewater
    Beginner August 2009
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    Hmmm, would need to see pics of both. curly is less formal, whereas gentle movie type waves is v.v.elegant.

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    ..and would suit your style of dress perfectly!

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    <gives ya a hug>

    x

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  • Beccy Sprout
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    Gorge pics, I love that dress and movie starlet waves definitely!

    ? for your Aunty, sorry to hear it's not great news there.

    B x

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  • nicky167
    Beginner September 2009
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    Oh SG. I've just seen your update. I'm so sorry to hear your aunt has passed away. Thoughts & ?'s being sent to you.

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  • MsT to MrsB
    Beginner September 2009
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    Oh no, im so very sorry to hear your aunt passed away nothing i can say will make it any easier but you're in my thoughts tonight sending a big virtual hug your way ?

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    Beginner January 1999
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    I'm so sorry to hear about your aunt. I hope you're ok. have a totally inadequate ?

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  • Weather Girl
    Beginner October 2009
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    Just seen your update. So sorry to hear the news - we're all thinking of you x

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  • teeheeyoucrazyguys!
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    Huggles xx

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  • bec84
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    Just seen your update, so sorry to hear about your aunt. x

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  • ooh la la
    Beginner August 2013
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    Also just seen your update. I'm so sorry SG. My thoughts are with you, because this will be an awful time for you and your family. ?

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    Thinking of you and you family ?

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  • ashmegdj
    Beginner August 2009
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    RIP SG's Aunty

    ?

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  • Saracroft251
    Beginner August 2010
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    Just seen your sad news - I am so sorry - at least she is at peace now and you got to see her before she passed away, I am sure that she knew you were there with her in the room x x x

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    Beginner October 2010
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    Hi SG

    Just wanted to know thinking about you , and how sorry I was to see your news.

    x

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