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Beginner August 2024 South West London

Please help us decide how to combine our names!!!

Nick, 22 August, 2023 at 22:25 Posted on Etiquette and Advice 0 9


Hello

My partner's last name is Read and mine is Ross.I'd like to get opinions on what people think about the surname Ross-Read or Read-Ross.

Does one sound better than the other? Do neither of of them sound as just Ross or Read? If so which one would you pick (ignoring tradition and purely going by the name).
We've been discussing for months and can't decide.
Thanks so much!

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Latest activity by Jess, 14 September, 2023 at 10:09
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    Beginner August 2024 South West London
    Nick ·
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    To clarify, we want to know whether Read-Ross sounds strange as a surname, and if we just just stick to Read or Ross! What do you think?
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    Expert November 2022 Lincolnshire
    Hayley ·
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    Have you tried using those names around the house rather than just first names to see how it feels? So for a couple of days you could be like "Mr Read-Ross dinner is ready", "Oh, Mr Read-Ross have you seen my phone?". Using the name repeatedly in real situations may help you decide if it works for you.
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    Beginner March 2024 New York
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    Congratulations on your upcoming marriage! Choosing a combined surname can be a fun and meaningful decision. Both options, Ross-Read and Read-Ross, have a nice ring to them. Ultimately, it comes down to personal preference and what sounds best to you and your partner. Consider saying both options out loud and see which one feels more natural. You could also try writing them down and seeing which one visually appeals to you more. Remember, there is no right or wrong answer here. It's all about finding a name that represents both of you and makes you happy. Trust your instincts and go with the option that resonates with you both the most.

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    Beginner May 2024 Berkshire
    Maria ·
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    Ross-Read I think
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    Beginner June 2025 South West London
    Nick ·
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    Stick with your own surnames
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    Based on how it sounds, I would go for Read-Ross
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    Beginner September 2023 North Yorkshire
    Clair-Lou ·
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    Why don’t you combine and have road 😂 or ress or readoss or rossread xx
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    Rockstar August 2024 West Midlands
    Sarah ·
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    I’d say Read-Ross
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    Beginner May 2025 Kent
    Angel ·
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    Personally I’d stick to one name but it’s personal preference
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