Pleasing parents compromise

I just wanted a small intimate wedding close family only. I shared with my Dad our guest list he said he felt offended that I didn't invite more of his family I have more of my mums side as I am closer to them. The thing is I hardly see my Dad side of the family. It always used to be me and my dad reaching out to my dad's family members. My Dad was so upset so I had to compromise saying some of the family he wants can come in the evening 😒. I really don't care to see them they have never really been there for me. I am so annoyed that they will be turning up.


I didn't want to upset my Dad further. I suppose good thing is it will just be the evening not at the wedding ceremony. Gave my dad two +1's so my aunties might come or one cousin depending. We will not be having a 1st dance or traditional music. We will be having classical music with strings etc something a bit different.
I have to make peace that they will be there I guess. I won't see them after for a few years I bet :/ it won't be so intimate after all.