Polish style wedding

Hi guys
I’m newly engaged and already thinking about the wedding. My dream has always been to have a polish style wedding (I’m polish my partner is english) what I mean by polish style wedding is the music and the games that we play and the fact that there’s alcohol on the table rather than a bar situation and also partying till the early morning ! I obviously want there to be a mixture of English as well as polish music.

We obviously want to get married in England as it is more practical however I am finding it difficult to find a place that I can do this at .
Any suggestions or recommendations of venues and bands/DJs in the Portsmouth area