Really??!

Does it really matter?

Your guests will come to your wedding to support you.

Your fiance's ex wife's guests will come to her wedding to support her.

It doesn't really matter when or where either of these weddings take place.

If you have guest overlap and they were on the same day, then it would be a problem. But as it is, just let her get on with doing her own thing and focus on your wedding, not hers.

View quoted message Totally understand this but we have a feeling she may have chosen the same week, venue out of spite…our venue has now lost its shine because of this…the venue was special to US and now the build up to my wedding and all I can think of is hers and probably even be in the same bedroom bridal suite a few days before!! My fiancés adult kids will attending both. My husband to-be not happy either!!

Whether it's a coincidence or she did it on purpose, unless you want to move your wedding, there is nothing you can do about it. Would it annoy you more knowing she has caused you the additional cost/time/stress of changing your venue? Even though it's the same venue, your outfits/decor/food/music etc. will all probably be different so it's not like you are having the exact same wedding. Maybe just ask your fiancé's kids to keep quiet during those days between so you don't know anything about her wedding when you are supposed to be getting excited about yours.

View quoted message Think we are going to move date to before hers so at least I’m not thinking of hers just before ours! Friends n family agree with me!

It's like a rom-com plot unfolding in real life! 😂 Don't stress too much, though. Life's full of crazy twists and turns, and this could be just one of those quirky moments.

View quoted message 🤣🤣 couldn’t make it up really! Of all the possible venues out there and we chose the same one within days of each other 🤣

If you have no possible contact with her or shared friends etc then surely just a coincidence?


Either way, I wouldn’t say it matters too much anyway. Don’t let it ruin your moment.. ex’s are ex’s for a reason xx