Hi,
im looking for ideas for a venue for our wedding, no date set likely 2024/25.
most venues iv looked at offer a 3-course set meal time for speeches etc, but what i would like is a more relaxed vibe, not unlike a wedding aborad where you would have a ceremony, drinks then a BBQ and then the party.
i also don't want to break the bank, ive never seen the point in spending 10s of thousands of pounds on one day (sorry for those who do).
any ideas on venue preferably with some accommodation too would be great 
thanks
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