Hello, I wanted some thoughts and advice.
Long story short, I've been friends with this person for around 15 years or more. We've always been super close. Up until about a year ago, she started to become distant and we grew apart, and she would always be nasty to me when she was drunk. We've discussed this and she didn't see a problem.
She got married in July this year, and 4 weeks before the wedding she told me she wanted me to come to her wedding as a guest rather than a bridesmaid. It was hard but I did it. She hasn't spoke to me since her wedding, and I noticed her and her husband have now unfollowed me on instagram. Due to this, I questionned where I stood in her life now and wanted to know due to my upcoming wedding and having to finalise guests and send the invites this month. She responded without even acknowledging my wedding, or what she had done. She gaslight me by saying her husband never followed me and she did it months ago after asking me not to be her bridesmaid anymore to protect herself. It's all very messy, I have tried to make amends many times since and she seems uninterested.
Basically do I take her off the guest list, or just invite her to the evening. I'm totally torn.
Thank you for reading.