Any advice would be appreciated. We are getting married April this year and sent our invitations out quite early due to the wedding being on a weekday. Everyone but one person has RSVPd in time, and we confirmed numbers with the caterers and sent our seating plan to our venue.
My grandmother is now saying she does want to come (after a lot of persuasion from another family member). And to be honest, I feel like as she didn't have the courtesy to reply by the date we set, why should we go out of our way to be so accommodating, when other guests replied by the date and have sent us happy wishes?
News of her possible attendance (she still hasn't RSVPd to us, as we are paying) may have not been so bad had she not gotten drunk the night my mum was fighting for her life, barely talking to me at other social occasions, and outrageous accusations of blaming my mum falling ill on my dad (she had a stroke). There's just so much bad feeling there. Both my FI and I feel like she will cast a black cloud on what should be the happiest day of our lives.
