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AuntieBJ
Beginner September 2014

requiring some otter hugs

AuntieBJ, 8 May, 2014 at 09:42 Posted on Off Topic Posts 0 24

8 years ago today, my brother left us, 2 days after the birth of his son who he never had the chance to meet. Every year we remember this day, but this year is particularly difficult as I prepare for my wedding. David was with me through some difficult times in my first marriage and I know how pleased he would be for me now.

I won't be around here much today as I will be spending time with the family, but would appreciate some otter hugs to help me on my way X

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Latest activity by *MM3*, 12 May, 2014 at 17:48
  • pammy67
    Beginner April 2015
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    Lots of HUGS xxx

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  • ATB
    Beginner August 2014
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    Thinking of you and our family on this difficult day and sending hugs xx

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  • KittenCake
    Beginner May 2013
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    XxxHugsxxx

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  • ebony_rose
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  • yorkshirekiwi
    Beginner August 2014
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    Big kiwi love and hugs

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  • sal.san
    Beginner December 2011
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  • cinnamon009
    Beginner December 2014
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    Big hugs BJ and for your family too. xx

    ps I also have to say how cute those otter pics are. look at their teeny lickle hands. aww.

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
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    Thank you ladies, especially for the cute ottery hugs xxx

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  • AmnesiaCustard
    Beginner June 2011
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    Hugs for you. That's very sad. x

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  • cymruangel
    Beginner December 2014
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    ? ? from an interloper too - hope today hasn't been too tough.

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  • Hoddy
    Beginner July 2014
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    Hugs xx

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  • H
    Beginner August 2014
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    Bekki sending huge hugs, it was 10 years march just gone since my brother took his life, so know exactly what you're going throw. It's a lie when they say it gets better with time isn't it, we just know how to handle it better. Sending so much love to you all. Xxxx

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  • clarehj
    Beginner April 2012
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    Big hugs. very sad xx

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  • H
    Beginner August 2014
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    Bekki, how are you feeling today? Hope a little better. Xxx

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  • Ddpunk
    Beginner June 2018
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    Have only just seen this Smiley sad sorry bekkijane ( also sorry for almost shortening your name to BJ!!)

    I lost my brother too, very suddenly in 2006 and I still find it incredibly hard. It makes me so sad that OH and my brother never got to meet, & although they're quite different personalities I'm confident that they'd have loved each other to bits. i love that you know how pleased David would be for you. I think it's really important to hang on to that, it's so easy to forget when times are difficult.

    Hope yesterday was filled with happy memories, have a big otter hug from me x

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
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    Thank you again lovely otters!! It wasn't a great day but we did our best to smile through. Mum, my daughter and I went out for lunch. Dad and my sister would normally have come but dads away and my sis was working so it was just the three of us.

    Then I spent the evening with OH ripping round the roads on gta5 lol, had a good old cry and felt a lot better.

    Today is easier and even though I know I will have a few tears on the wedding day itself, I can go on knowing he will be smiling down on us.

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  • Erin8
    Beginner June 2014
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    Big hugs to you, thinking of you at this hard time. Glad to hear the day went as well as could be expected. In a few weeks its the first anniversary of my Dad's death so l have a bit of an insight into how you are feeling. He was called David as well funnily enough.

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
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    Sending hugs right back to you Erin xxx

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  • Erin8
    Beginner June 2014
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    Thanks xxx

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  • Red Kite
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    Hello lovely,

    I didn't check Hitched much last week so sorry i missed this - have some belated hugs!

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  • AuntieBJ
    Beginner September 2014
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    Thanks RK xxx

    OH's dad asked me to help him clear out MIL's clothes today. We lost her two years ago - seems I'm destined to have emotional days every week right now! so the hugs are very welcome xx

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  • *MM3*
    Beginner June 2014
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    Sorry I've just seen this, have some very belated hugs ? x

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