Save the dates

Hey! If it’s any help, we are getting married in April 2022 and I sent save the dates in November and December 2020. Mainly because I was conscious so many people are postponing/holidays getting moved etc. and wanted people to have the date earmarked. If the shoe was on the other foot, I’d rather know than book something and miss out on a close friend’s wedding!


I plan on sending the actual invites once we have more clarity on the roadmap for weddings moving forward, which I anticipate will be some time this summer.
Hope this helps! X

I'm getting married December 2022 and sent our Save the Dates this week! Why wait! Those receiving Save the Dates are people I 100% want to have there with me, if possible. The more notice I give, the greater the likelihood of that happening. Being at Christmas, too, I felt it best to ensure people were able to factor the day into any plans. x

Hi Katie,

I don't see there being an issue with sending out your save the dates sooner rather than late. With COVID a lot of people have had to postpone holidays and other weddings over the next couple of years. You want to make sure you get your date in early so that no one gets booked up. If I was a guest, I would want ample of notice to ensure I kept the date free.

With love,

Laura x

Kept Weddings

Hi! 1st of all SNAP! I'm getting married the same day and in the same year I've made it my priority this month to collect together all the addresses and aim to get the save the dates out by the end of this month. My fiancé thinks it's a bit early but tbh with everyone postponing holidays etc. I think it's an OK time to send them out normally it'd be far too early but these aren't normal times, hope that helps

We’re hefting married 15th October 2022 and have already sent our save the date cards out as after COVID has done 1 people will be booking there holidays so we decided to sent them early.

Who have u sent the save the dates to - just day guests? Or evening aswell

Who did u send the save the dates to day guests only?

View quoted message I'm planning on sending them to just the day guests, we don't want everyone assuming they're going to the whole thing

View quoted message I am only sending them for day guests

Im getting married 18th September we are sending ours in a few weeks just to immediate family and friends who no matter what restrictions will attend

We are getting married July 2022 and we've sent ours out. I have mine done as fridge magnets so people can't loose them ?. We only sent ours to day guest's as well X

Hello!
We’re not getting married until September 2024 but the save the dates are on order and will go out as soon as we get them.
It’s a destination wedding so want to give people as much time/ notice so they can save/ get time off/ think of an excuse to not come ?Xx

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We're also getting married 18th September so I'm relieved to hear others haven't sent save the dates yet! We only booked it in at start of January this year, and we're waiting for the announcements on 22nd in the hope we might have a better idea of how many people we can invite, but we've told our close friends and parents the date over the phone/whatsapp etc in the meantime.