Save the dates dilemma

I think it’ll be fine. Better to send them out in the next few weeks before the celebration rather than wait until their celebration. We were going through a similar thing when my sister in law was sorting her wedding and nothing was said. I would try to avoid talking only about your wedding, especially at her celebration, but as long as conversation is balanced you should be fine.

View quoted message Thanks so much for your reply. I feel like holding it off would then maybe cause more issues such as someone else announces theirs or potentially our date being the same as someone's anniversary party etc.

Save the dates aren’t a big drama anyway. If it were invites then maybe it wouldn’t be worse. Just do it and make sure that, when you talk to your aunt, you talk loads about her wedding!!

As its a couple of Months away I would still send them. Because you will still have sent them at least a month before her celebration and you need to get your save the dates out. Plus there will always be other people doing things and other occasions, you can’t hold off on your things because of someone else or you could be waiting forever to send them

Definitely still send them next week. It’s not your fault your aunty didn’t tell anyone she was getting married and then planned a celebration with little notice. Don’t let it effect your plans!