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Tanika
Curious January 2028 Lothian & Borders

Second Thoughts About My Dress…

Tanika, 10 February, 2025 at 17:50 Posted on Wedding Attire 0 3

Hey everyone,

My wedding is so close, and I’m suddenly doubting my dress choice. I had my final fitting today, and I just… don’t love it. I don’t know why I didn’t realize this sooner, but now I feel like I picked the wrong style for my body.

I have more of an athletic build—straight waist, broad shoulders—and I chose a mermaid-style dress with a deep V neckline and delicate beading. When I first tried it on, I loved how elegant it looked. But after the alterations (taking in the bodice, adjusting the straps, hemming), I feel like it’s just too fitted. Instead of enhancing my shape, it makes me look boxy, and the neckline suddenly feels too revealing. I had envisioned something soft and effortless, and now I feel like I’m squeezed into a dress that doesn’t feel like me.

I mentioned it to my tailor, and she’s trying to let out the seams a bit for a more relaxed fit, but I’m scared it won’t make enough of a difference. Now I’m spiraling—should I just grab a different dress last minute and go with it as is? Or am I overthinking and just in wedding panic mode?

Anyone else had dress regrets this close to the big day? What did you do?

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Latest activity by Robert, 16 March, 2025 at 06:35
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    Genius July 2020 Monmouthshire
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    How close are you to your wedding day? Your profile says January 2028, but I'm assuming that's not correct as you wouldn't be having your dress fitted nearly three years ahead of the wedding!

    It might be worth looking at your options for peace of mind - e.g. how much can you afford to spend on a replacement dress and can you get one delivered in time (try mail order and high street options as they have a quick delivery time).

    Also, maybe try remembering back to your reasons for buying your current dress in the first place. Was it one that YOU really liked or did you get encouraged to 'push your comfort zone' or 'try something different' by other people. Sometimes, we pick something that we love ourselves which is a bit different and then feel nervous because it is different. Other times, we can get encouraged to buy something by others that may look good but we don't feel comfortable in it.

    Go with what makes you feel comfortable - however stunning you look in the dress (and I bet you look amazing in spite of all your negative comments on your appearance!) if you don't feel comfortable, it's going to come across.

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    Oxfordshire
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    I'm so sorry to hear this. Try my website www.sheque.co.uk. We can get a sophisticated and affordable wedding dress to you in a week.

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  • Robert
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