Hey everyone,
I need your opinions and insights regarding a situation my fiancé and I are currently facing. We have our hearts set on a specific venue for our wedding in September/October 2024, but unfortunately, it's fully booked for that period. We did find an available date in November, but for various reasons, we would prefer not to get married during that month.
We've been brainstorming potential solutions, and one idea that came up was offering to pay a couple who already have the date we desire to swap with us. Our intention is to negotiate and see if they would be open to exchanging dates, allowing us to secure our dream venue. However, we're unsure about the feasibility and etiquette of such an arrangement.
Here are a few questions I'd appreciate your thoughts on:
- Do you think it's reasonable to propose a date swap to another couple who already have the September/October date we desire?
- Would you personally consider swapping your wedding date if you were in a similar situation?
- If you were to entertain the idea of swapping dates, how much compensation do you believe would be fair for the couple who agrees to the exchange? The venue hire cost is approximately £9,000 per day in summer and £6,000 in winter.
We value your input and would love to hear any experiences, opinions, or advice you might have. If you've encountered a similar situation or have any alternative suggestions, please feel free to share. We're open to exploring different options to make our dream wedding a reality without compromising on the timing.
Thank you in advance for your valuable insights!