Should I change date or postpone my wedding?
We're going tomorrow to pay the deposit/meet with the wedding planner for our ceremony and reception. Once that's done, we will pay the deposit for the hall for the night and the band. We've already paid a very small deposit for the registrar.
All booked around my OH's parents as they live away and run a farm so it was the best date to suit them leaving the animals etc.
However, I've just found out I'm pregnant. I had a suspected ectopic pregnancy in March 2012 and ended up miscarrying. Been trying to conceive since and had lots of pain etc. Had a laparoscopy in Sept 13. Was told yesterday by the gyna that I've got endometriosis and to go get referred by my doc to a fertility clinic asap because of my age as we've been trying for ages and nothing happening. However, my gums are very sore and I've had a strange feeling in my stomach so I did a test last night. This was positive.
I don't know what to do. I must only just be pregnant. If so, then I'd be due around July, my wedding being 1st Aug. Do I postpone or cancel the wedding? I've got everything crossed but what if I cancel the wedding and then I end up miscarrying again?
Sorry if too much information/sound like I'm moaning - my head's all over the place at the mo.